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CraigFromMpls 62M
14 posts
7/2/2007 3:33 pm
Are You Contacted by Married Guys?


Some ladies here on SFF have a strong negative opinion about being contacted by married men, as in ALL CAPS warnings to stay away!

I completely understand and will always respect your wishes; hopefully other guys will do the same.

Ladies, do you get pestered a lot by unwelcome contacts from married guys? I'm curious.

I'm trying to be up front about my situation. There aren't many safe, quality ways to find a lover. I'm new to SFF but have high hopes that I'll meet the right person in a similar situation.

-- Craig

michianaredhead 74F
12642 posts
7/2/2007 5:16 pm

My profile says I am not interested if they are not single...however many do not read the profiles and will continue to make contacts....each to their own as for me
I AM NOT INTRERESTED IF YOU ARE NOT SINGLE...I always say I am the entree in my relationships I am no one's side dish....RED

Some believe in destiny, some believe in fate. I believe that happiness is something we create


BarbieRocks 79F

7/2/2007 6:16 pm

DITTO! Men want "female" penpals even? Why if they are married. Then have a "male" PenPal....that would seem logical to me.

Marriage is a "sacred" thing to MOST. Those who would have an extra-marital affair...well, they would NOT be MY choice for a mate. It's simple and simply a commitment to one and your vows. I think they call it "true" love.


bijou624

7/3/2007 4:03 am

I can't even understand why a married man would join this group in the first place.


LapKittie 61F

7/3/2007 9:45 pm

Seems to me that being involved in this site is a little confusing and likely not helpful for that hole that you say you are looking to fill. Many of us have been hurt by men who cheated on us... and we are loathe to be the helper of a man who cheats. VBG says that she wants her own husband .. I am much the same way. Not only do I not want to be a partner to philandering, but I want to have 100% of the attention of my guy.


penpalonly2 79F

7/4/2007 6:31 am

The only "good" thing about you Craig is that your profile leaves nothing to the imagination...not like some I have encountered on this site.

Now let's get down to how I feel...SICK....If I could I would block you from this site completely....you are mocking all the decent women here. Did you have your fingers crossed behind your back when you recited your marriage vows....Take your saudid little profile and find a gutter site to display it on


lynxQ10 79F

7/5/2007 11:36 am

59031]apparently you thought these ladies here have no morals..have you learned anything...me i want to preform a 38 vasectomy on cheating men..

lynxQ10


Manilabelle 64F

7/7/2007 2:13 am

sorry, but did you say A-Hole? LOL

I do agree with ladybug...you would do better with AdultFF. [/COLOR
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47lonelymarried 67F

7/14/2007 7:33 am

I understand a lot of what you are going threw. I have been married 30 years, cant afford the divorce(yet working on it, I left him 3 years ago) after 18 years of no sex maybe once a year, and as long as once in 3 years. I loved him, he fathered 3 children I was always amazed that it happened. He never slept with me (18yrs he slept on the couch)and I was told it was my fault. I was to dry he said. He never gave me a chance. I don't want to break someone else's marriage up,but I understand not leaving for I stayed too long. Good luck. I try not to judge someone else because I have been there myself and It is so lonely to be married and keep trying to keep the love going, as a wife when you are told to go away and your hand slapped , dont touch. It hurts and I moving on, its not my fault he didnt want me anymore. Life is to short.