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coral_leah 68F
18 posts
4/27/2007 7:08 am
My first Night on chat.


(b)Being my first night on this site i was realy excited to get to know the chatters.Well the excitment certainly changed to disapointment in a matter of minutes. On entering the room, i was greeted by some nice chatters, then along came an attention seeking moron, jingles was his name.
He made a remark about his, ( lets say manhood) not his words though, more like rooster, with a different spelling, im sure you know what i mean. Myself, along with a few other chatters had made a humourous remark to jingles, ment in jest only.
Then he called me a very derogotive word, started with *C*, i meant no harm in my remark, wich was very mild compared to what he replied, ok, all i said was, maybe he shouldnt rub it so often, then he comes back with calling me a *C*. No i am not crying about this, i have heard worse, but i am wondering, how on earth did he get away with saying that and no one said anything to him? do they not have a room monitor?
I was told by my big sister to join sff as there was some very lovely people here, she has since left sff due to health problems, and at the time of this incident she was sitting with me showing me the ropes of sff and telling me who she often chatted to in the room. Big sister was shocked to have seen the greeting i recieved from jingles, and told me, dont worry, you will come across people like that, but its the first time she has ever seen anyone do that. I dont intend to mark everyone as he is, my sister told me some of the baddies in sff chat, and pointed out many nice chatters, therefore, my intensions are to stick around for a while yet, at times under the watchful eye of the big sister, lol.
And now, i guess you are all wondering who big sister is, i will give you a hint, she is kind, gentle, sweet, and most of you know of her, no, i am not her in disguise, she is not capable of sitting down and typing for long periods any more, and she will certainly punish me for writing this blog lol. Ok, her favorite colour is purple, im sure you know who she is now.
The reason she left sff was that she had an accident and split her head open, more across the eyebrow, and has been having difficulty focusing, she asked me to mention it wasnt on account of anyone, she loved having a chat with you all.. So on that note, i bid you goodnight, and hope to chat more... Yours truly.. Coraleah.

Rocketship 80F
18619 posts
4/27/2007 8:19 am

Hi Cora,
Sorry that your intro to chat was so disappointing.
Did your sister show you where the ignore key is?
Looking forward to meeting you in chat.
Take care!


wolfpacgirl 70F

4/27/2007 9:38 am

Welcome to SFF, I am sorry you had to deal with such a person, but there a few on chat that way. Please tell your sister we are praying that she is doing better. Don't walk away, there are many wonderful people here at SFF and they will stand by you. Keep blogging and chatting just ignore that person if you can. God Bless.


coral_leah 68F

4/27/2007 10:38 am

Ty for your responses, yes unduplicated, you are one of the lovely ladies sis told me about, you certainly know her. And i look forward to chatting with you. Rocketship,& wolfpacgirl, no need for you to apologise on his behalf, i know his kind, yes i was shown the ignore key and will certainly use it, ty for the welcome. Sister is doing fine ty, she has to, we need & love her too much, thank you.
Yours sincerely, Coraleah.


missassypants 69F

4/27/2007 10:49 am

Coral- this person you speak of has mental problems;I discovered this after chatting with him on a personal basis. When I no longer wanted to continue our conversations, I got pretty much the same thing you got. It would be best to ignore him, and hope that some time SOON he gets the help he desperately needs.


coral_leah 68F

4/27/2007 5:04 pm

Maybe i have done exactly what i have asked others not to do, Dont judge me. I had no idea this person has a problem, therefore i shall disregard his sarcastic remarks in the future and look forward to chatting with him on his good day. It seems i have more to learn about this chat system, and i will surely get to know other chatters before i place judgement on their personality. Jingles if you read this, then i do apologise for the comment i made to you, although you left it wide open for me to jump in and place my remark, maybe next time you should keep it to your self if you are having problems with your *rooster*,lol.
P,S, I shall be in chat again. Yours sincerly, Coraleah.


Greyfox2004 82M

4/27/2007 8:03 pm

Coral, very sorry to read about J's accident this way. Please pass on my best wishes to her in the hope she'll recover from it to be her best sparkling former self soon.
Your "faux pas" to Jingles is exactly what she would have said too, lol.

Belle, I think you may well be overestimating that keyword.


coral_leah 68F

4/27/2007 8:31 pm

Greyfox2004, J is doing realy well now, thank you, I have passed on all well wishes to her. As for my *faux pas* J was the one who told me to post it, LOL. I learn a lot from the big sis. .
Yours Sincerly, Coraleah.
By The way, she is the redhead.


Greyfox2004 82M

4/27/2007 9:57 pm

I know she's the redhead, Coraleah, only tooooo well.
Would you be the blonde?
And, if so, how much ya want for your car?
rofl


coral_leah 68F

4/28/2007 1:41 am

I think this blog has served its purpose, i will be deleting it tomorrow, no use in taking up wanted space. Thank you to all who read, and commented.
Yours Sincerly, Coraleah.


bfpurple 71F

4/29/2007 5:01 am

Ok, girl, im back, stop talking about me, lol.. luv ya sis.


Sylvester1953 70M

4/29/2007 11:26 am

Not all of us here in the chatrooms/blogland are like that Coral....you will see if you stick around for awhile longer...there are alot of very nice and fun people on this site.