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AM I A VICTIM AM I A VICTIM It seems I have been banned from the blogs as Spotheaussie so LIR will take over. I have been almost absent from SFF for weeks…………because I found it was not a nice a place and I come here for pleasure. Not to see fights and nastiness AND WATCH ADULTS PLAYING GAMES. I returned this week and it seems that I have been the victim of emails circulating for weeks………what about I haven’t a clue I have done nothing wrong and anyone that knows me will tell you I am not a fighter or mischief maker I have very few on my emails and am WELL known to be here just for fun, I was tempted …………not to bother ……I have lots of other interests to spend my time on A friend said why should others spoil your fun………My reply was I don’t find nastiness fun…….BUT IT MADE ME THINK It made me think about all the good chatters that have left this site because of vicious gossip ……………I can tell you it is the innocent ones that leave. Not to return this has been a big loss to the chatrooms If people have differences please sort it out between themselves instead of circulating to everyone this is where things get distorted and often the innocent are crucified I have seen it happen often My friends all know if I have an issue I tell the person involved and there it stays…… The few times this has happened we have been able to resolve it and we have remained friends  I realise there will always be people in these places that are not happy unless they are fighting or causing mischief…….But I think it is sad they have to delight in spoiling other peoples fun The reason I have decided to write this I have thought so much about Paris and Merry Merry the last weeks and I hope people will just take a minute to think Do I have a problem…….OR AM I PROBLEM I FEEL NO NEED TO JUSTIFY MYSELF I THINK I AM WELL ENOUGH KNOWN FOR THE PERSON I AM |
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Spot...I guess you will always be Spotheaussie to me, must try to remember your new handle. I don't know what happened, I don't go in chats anymore or rarely. I miss it sometime and will but it is just so different now. If anyone has said things about me I don't know about it and don't care to. It used to be such a fun place and still can be at times. You are right about Paris and Merry. Both should make all of us think! We never know what is ahead in life for us. Please don't leave and please continue to blog. Hugs, Ann
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((((((((((LadyInRed60))))))))))))) hugs lady. I had no knowledge of this. I am so sorry. When I was 13, I was having a problem with a boy at school. I had no knowledge my father knew about it. One day we were leaving the cow barn. Dad said, "son look at that cow pile". I looked puzzled and ask why. Dad said, "its not bothering a thing but if you stir it it will stink and there are times when you go through life you will meet people just like that cow pile, if you desire to be happy do not stir the cow pile, go around the cow pile and get on with your life". The wisdom of my father has provided me with a wonderful life and YES many times I have gone around the cow pile! . The beginning of life, conception..
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1/20/2007 1:03 am |
LIR, it's very easy to delete a handle, have you asked SFF why were you banned? They can reinstate you from their backups ... I do not read your blogs all the time but as you said; if you have done nothing then ask SFF to bring back the loved handle, there are many members like you who take breaks, some return after months and the handle remains there. Re your messages I know they only keep them for a month or according to the space your membership buys. Give it a try if you like ... SMILE
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1/20/2007 12:46 pm |
Spot this is and has been an ongoing problem as long as I have been on SFF which is well over 2 years. I too left once that is why there is a 2 behind my name as when I came back I couldn't have my original handle back. I decided I was not gonna quit and give up something I enjoyed just because of a few and know what? I'm still here and most of those who gave me a hard time are gone! So just stick it out and to heck with them who cause trouble! They soon depart when they lose their audience!
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spot....I guess I don't come into the chatroom or the blogs often enough to witness a lot of fighting. Some, yes...but there is always going to be scuffles where there are a lot of people involved. I try to stay out of them for the most part, depending on what the fight is about. You know who you are and what you are...that is the important thing. No explanations necessary. Those that know you over the years know you are not a trouble maker. I for one would hate to see you leave SFF because of the nonsense. There is nothing we can do to control others and maybe that is how they get their enjoyment. sheeesh. I've lost count of how many times I've left SFF and came back. LOL. So there IS something here that attracts. There are always those few who we've come to enjoy and love.....eh? So....I've learned to let a lot roll right off my back...and take the bad with the good...and above all, I try not to get involved in the craziness. Hugs. Prairiesky
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1/21/2007 5:14 pm |
You my friends are the reason I am here THANKYOU  I have emailed them twice but had no reply........ DAN I love that coat and the smile wow marriage agrees with YOU LOL NOw I gotta find you some good jokes 
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1/22/2007 5:01 pm |
Why were you banned? My access was suspended once for some reason, and I just emailed SFF central. They fixed it fairly quickly.
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1/23/2007 1:56 am |
Hun those that are your friends know you and love you. The rest do not matter. Hang in there, I am behind you and care enough to stand up and say. Spot and LIR, is my friend.  hugs, Theresa
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