Blog : one solution

nuun 72F

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11/16/2008 7:52 am

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one solution

i had this friend,
who had so much problem with his wife,
so to solve it he intent to find himself another wife...that is ok for our community, religiously too.
he ask me `` do you want to marry me ? ''
because he is serious, i answer him seriously too
``no ''
he asked me again ``why ''
``cause i don't think we are compatible ''
he said : but i like you.
nuun : i like you too, but as friend
he said : as hubby?
nuun : nope, cause i want to be able 2b me...rather crude, but
always try to be honest with myself and others
he said : am i not honest?
nuun : you are too damn nice to able to be honest.

then today he told me he will find someone so far away so that
he can leave everything here and start a new life...
this is the way 50 plus man thinketh, not a young man.
did he thinks by leaving...the problem will be solve?
bodily ? yes, you can take yourself however far u like.
mentally? can you leave without thinking of those you leave
behind? maybe not the wife, but how about the
are you willing to go without ever turning back?

all i can say to that dear friend is ``be brave ''
...to cut the rotten link,
...to hurt others,
...to hurt yourself too,
if you really want to start a new live,
if not , don't bother,
cause you are only wasting time, energy and money,
saying nothing about heartache to you,
and to those around you that you still love.
if you cannot be that, don't bother trying