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GOOD vs HATE & ANGER by SHADOW STALKER Time to explain the line where these meet. One is of a positive and one is of a negative. Or like oil and water. So the GOOD is the opportunity for the hate and anger. Hate and anger cannot accept it because it is not of the like energy. So, that of hate and anger must now chisel and bash that of GOOD and try to reduce it to a like energy of hate and anger. Trying hard to bring it to a place where it can be accepted by hate and anger. Those of GOOD, prefer the light over the dark, so those of GOOD refuse to be broken down. So when opportunities of GOOD present themselves to those of hate and anger, it is to offer a time of change. Higher ground...a better place. Those of GOOD invite those of hate and anger to step out of the darkness and into the light of goodness. So if you only give out the energy of hate and anger then that is all you get back. What I call "a self inflicted wound". Good will always present itself to us and we can choose. Choosing it doesn't mean we are a failure, but rather everyone wins. It means we truly want better for ourselves. BUT, if you are choosing to be of hate and anger than you will not feel worthy of the good, and find a way to deny yourself of its benefits. So going out of ones way to rage, insult, harrass and abuse, is not only a personal choice, but it is only making it obvious that you don't feel worthy of better in return. If you want better...than put better out there. |
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So THAT'S what you are doing?
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7/22/2006 6:52 am |
Excuse me june,but this blog page is one of the best things SFF has done....if people use it the way it was intended...and that is for sharing a small or large glimpse into their lives. I didn't come to this site and I don't read this page to be preached to, which is what this blog and so many others seem to be doing lately. Frankly I am tired of reading about the "bullies" in chat and the way I deal with "bullies" here is to ignore them...here...and I never go to chat and talk about them there. In the real world, when I come across people that are mean and nasty, I walk away from them...ignore them and I don't rant and rave to any/everyone that crosses my path about them...it is such a waste of time, and that's how I feel about people ranting and raving about people in chat or anywhere else...a waste of time. The above...is of course...JMO
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Nicely put!! Ann 
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7/22/2006 9:47 am |
Little fish. If it doesn't feel good to stand in here, then don't. The very thing you are complaining about, IS the very thing that you came in here and did. If you are tired of reading about it, then don't participate and click on a blog more suitable for your tastes. This blog states the facts of what is going on in other areas. I did not see where anyone mentioned your name. Perhaps you could enlighten us as to how that woman's post is about you. We had no clue, unti YOU brought light to it. And this post also goes out to the woman in the black shirt and white pants. One will always gravitate to those of like personalities and energy. And perhaps you can run through the list of blogs that discuss sex and dirty jokes. Many out there degrading people left and right. But your only here because this one speaks some aweful truths. And you might have to face some things about yourself. You might best serve those blogs far better than mine. There is a positive about your comment....it proves my point. Thank you.
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7/22/2006 9:56 am |
To the woman whose name is that of the month after May. lol Thank you for bringing to light the good changes that are taking place. Expect that some will come in and selectively read a post. So lets see how she made my point. Because she came in here with anger and hate she only saw what she could accept... a negative, and focused on that. Because she did not feel worthy of a goodness, she did not see that there was a positive, "that chat was becoming a fun place again". She couldn't only twist, chisel and reduce your post to a negative that she could accept. She does so by choice. And made it clear the area of her focus and where she chooses to stand. Thank you.
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7/22/2006 3:05 pm |
I agree, Abelle! Good explanation about that he wrote! Take care, my friend! kora
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7/22/2006 4:34 pm |
Ahh Shadow Stalker: Good to see you here again, have yet to see the man in the blue shirt and the pink ink.....I like your view on subjects I hold dear, everyone is entitled to their own opinion as am I. Trying hard to be one of the good. Thank you again..wrote my very first blog today..I am storyteller time I got with it..Take care
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7/22/2006 6:59 pm |
Thank you for your opinions and input. Everyone displays their own colors. Each post speaks for itself. I agree it IS a personal choice "if you want better, then put better out there". But also a personal choice if you choose not to put better out there. My point exactly. Knowing there is a variety of 2600 blogs. Each blog respresenting something different. Allows one to personally choose what interests them. So choosing to visit my blog is as well, a personal choice. Thank you for stopping by. The man in the blue shirt had his key taken away. A bit too improper for my tastes. Storyteller, I will take a moment to visit your blog, and always, thank you for your posts. Greatly appreciated. Thank you.
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I agree with Nemo...I am sick of hearing that chat and blogs are filled with bullies. I find it very strange, that I have never seen much evidence of it...just all this complaining in blogs. Chat is like everything else in life, it is what each one of us makes it. If we go in with an attitude of resentment we will find resentment... whether it's there or not...because that's how we'll interpret the words of others. For that simple reason...no one person could possibly "fix" or "clean up" chat. You get what you give in this world...if there is hate and anger in your heart, you'll see it everywhere. This blog is a good example of that. Anger, hate and bitterness runs through every word of it. "If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion" Dali Lama
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Correction...I meant, of course the Dalai Lama
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7/23/2006 5:53 pm |
To the quoter of the Dalai Lama. We are aware that the Dalai himself is practicing it, but quoting is and actually applying it to ones behavior are two differnt things. This blog is about Good vs Hate & Anger. That is why you saw Hate and Anger, but why would you deprive yourself of the good? Lets agree, it has been very quiet and peaceful in blog/chatville recently. And that not only is good, but that is GREAT. I applaud community effort. So time to take a rest now. And go to a happy place where peace reins. Shadow Stalker
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No, no anger, no hate...I just feel great pity for you.
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