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gambiteer49 69M
100 posts
7/13/2006 7:19 pm

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On What Being a Friend Means to Me. :)

Although I'm not yet really active on this site at least one of my good friends is and I thought I would say something about what being a friend means to me.

If you are my friend, I celebrate with you when you are happy and I cry with you when you are sad.

If you are my friend, we might not ever meet but I can still talk with you and we can be close.

If you are my friend, you can be from any country or culture it doesn't matter as long as we care about each other.

If you are my friend, you can be any age. I like people because they are unique, fun and great to talk to, not because of when or in what year they were born.

If you are my friend, I will stand by you and I hope you'll stand by me.

If you are my friend, I will try to tell you in a nice but firm way if I think you are making a mistake. I do this not to upset you, but because I care about you and you are my friend.

If you are my friend, I might ask you to tell me if you think I'm making a mistake because you care about me.

I look for a person who can laugh, is positive, happy, compassionate and caring because those to me are far more important qualities than anything else.

Someday I would love to meet you. I wish we lived closer. Someday I want to have a huge meeting of as many of my friends as I can get together at the same time. I've been talking about this for 2.5 years. Maybe someday it will really happen.

I will not get involved in gossip, backstabbing or drama and I hope you won't either. Life is too short for that and so am I.

Above all maybe someday we can become more than friends but even if that isn't possible you are valued and treasured as my friend and I consider your friendship a precious gift not lightly given or received.


moon2u 73F

7/13/2006 9:10 pm

Bruce this is so refreshing, so many people talk about what they don't want and what there standards are but you choose talk about
truly making friends and loving them for their unique qualities.
Friends do stand by each other and support each other through the
bad times.They share laughter and cry with you when you are hurting.
Now this is the kind of friend we should all treasure.

Hey buddy, I've got your back if you've got mine!
Hey ladies what kind of friend are you lookin for?

giggles moony


Butterflypurple1 71F

7/13/2006 10:18 pm

And if you were my friend,i would treasure the friendship,even though it wouldnt go further then a friendship.. ty,nice to hear some lovely words. be safe..


LapKittie 61F

7/14/2006 4:07 am

very very nice .. thanks for laying that out.


Maudie50 74F

7/14/2006 10:25 am

Very good post. You said it all very well.


Jes4now 64F

7/29/2006 5:12 pm

Bruce..

May you find many friends here too..

In Oct. the last weekend there is a bash in St. Petersburg, Florida. SFF friends come from all over to get together.. You will meet many many nice people.. I have been to the last two.. and have met many good friends.. this is a wonderful way to see the faces of the people you blog and chat with..

Friends are the best.. go for it!
Gina

___________
Find the humor each day holds.... Gina


moon2u 73F

8/2/2006 10:50 am

AND HE SINGS TOO LADIES, GOT THE VOICE OF AN ANGEL.

GIGGLES.


gambiteer49 69M
66 posts
8/3/2006 8:24 am

Ah shucks Moony, now I'm blushing