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starwomyn 70F
5426 posts
8/18/2008 8:30 am

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8/18/2008 2:03 pm

Phone Call From An Old Boyfriend

Late week, I was getting ready to go to work when I noticed a missed call on my phone. I kindof sortof recognized the number but wasn't quite sure who it was. I returned the call and got a recorded Message Since my number is on the 12 Step Phone list in both Virginia and West Virginia, it could be anyone.

"Hi the is the Mudpuppy and Dufus, We are not able to come to phone right now, Leave your Name and Number, we'll call you right back"

Several years ago, Dufus was my steady boyfriend. We got together shortly after Grumpy and I divorced. After the divorced, I lost my job thus I was in a major league depression. This is not good for the alcoholic that I am - practicing or otherwise. Dufus is a very radical 12 Stepper which is where I really needed to be at the time. Despite our differences, I respect his dedication to 12 Step recovery. He is one who will drag drunks off the streets and sponsor them. I tend to like sponsoring women after they have a few years of recovery. They are a little more willing to make changes at that point.

Two years into our relationship, he brought a woman to my home. "This is my new girlfriend, Can you do a tarot card reading for us." I gave them the Tarot Card reading from Hades, The Empress and Justice. Childbirth and the Legal System. What a great scenerio.

I just read what the cards said. He's the one who got her pregant and had to jump through CPS Hoops.

It turns out that he picked up a drunk woman on a 12 Step call and took her home. Maybe there are some women who can successfully FiretrUCK thier way to recovery. She wasn't able to do it. She started drinking and using again. She lost custody of the and Dufus had to jump through hoops for Social Service to gain custody of the .

So, Dufus finally returned the call that I returned. After the Mudpuppy left, his girlfriend before me returned. He tells me that Ms. Standby couldn't deal with an active four year old so she left last week. "It may be more than just the boy," "Why don't you try changing that phone message. It really disrepectful toward your current girlfriend. " I suggusted.

I don't know how to change it and I really need help with little Bubba so could you drive to Moron County and change the phone message for me.................. yada yada yada he rambles on.

I was totally heartbroken when Dufus ditched me for the Mudpuppy but in reality it was a lucky escape.

Cry A River, Build A Bridge, Get Over It

I made it over that bridge and eventually had to go over another one. Life on Life's Terms.

I advised him that I had no intentions of travelling to Moron County in West Forgotten By Virginity anymore. I have no interest in mothering a four old. I am transfering to Sam's Club in and I relocating to Charlotteville, Virginia and By the Way ...... I Have a New Gentleman Friend and he's a keeper. and thank you for making my day. Crossing over some bridges can be a very good thing.



Abracadabra


michianaredhead 74F
12642 posts
8/18/2008 11:54 am

Some people are nice to leave in the dust behind us as we move on.....GOOD FOR YOU......

Some believe in destiny, some believe in fate. I believe that happiness is something we create


starwomyn 70F
8874 posts
8/18/2008 1:50 pm

    Quoting  :

You can actually do your own Tarot Readings. The only thing Tarot card do is tap into your own Tuition and we all have it.

I didn't have to be a Psychic to figure out that the Mudpuppy was going to end up pregnant. She was a professional breeder doing it for the income but ended up losing custody because of her issues with addiction.

Abracadabra