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starwomyn 70F
5422 posts
7/29/2021 1:37 am

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Throw Back Thursday - Homely As F?!

I bet you didn't make any money stripping either. I mean, look at you. You're homely AF. quotes CP3

It is not the first time I have been called "homely as F" I remember being in f0urth grade and overhearing a b0y say, there is a new GlRL in class and she's even uglier than.........

It was soooooooo much fun being the most unpopular GlRL in school but it did result in me becoming VERY anti-establishment as a woman. I am not afraid stand against the crowd because I don't need their approval nor do I give a FiretrUCK what they think. If they head on a path, I am perfectly fine exploring the one in the other direction.

We are not a paper doll society and that's okay.

I had a biker BF named "Pyscho" who was fond of what he called the houchy kouchy bars. We were at the Palomino in Las Vegas watching an Am*A*TEUR Dance contest. Psycho was critiquing the dancers. I took heed his assessment and decided to get on stage myself. After winning for the second time. I decided to go professional. I eventually quit my job at the hospital and danced.

The Advantage of being an exotic dancer - is that the money is actually pretty decent - I could eat anything I want - and stay in shape. I was know as Wicked Bonessa.

It was exhilarating going to my Xth year High sch00L reunion. My date was a movie agent and I had on a very sexy outfit. Homely As F was Homely AS F no more.



Abracadabra


starwomyn 70F
8872 posts
7/29/2021 2:13 am

The photo is from my dancing days. This is at Chuck-E-Cheese for my son's birthday party. My date had two daughters so kid friendly dates worked for us.

How ironic - My best exotic dancing friend was a transsexual woman and now I am the Eastern Regional Vice President of the local Republican Club.


Abracadabra


Koffla 68M
12287 posts
7/29/2021 4:22 am



This is a great Throwback Thursday picture!





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Abelle2 83F
31231 posts
7/29/2021 5:06 am

Not only is it a great picture but the rest of the story is great!


Maudie1 74F
8151 posts
7/29/2021 7:55 am

It's a beautiful photo, Star, interesting story too.


Nileyears 71F
4208 posts
7/29/2021 8:09 am

STAR!! You are far from being fugly and such a cutie in your youth. Personally, I could never get up on a stage and dance, I was way to shy back then. Lol, but not now! Too late!!


Archer62 83F
7096 posts
7/29/2021 8:20 am

GOOD FOR YOU!


Shartaun03 81F
6200 posts
7/29/2021 8:31 am

Interesting story Starwomyn but I would't have called you ugly. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.


MrsJoe 76F
17400 posts
7/29/2021 8:50 am

I've never paid much attention to what others might think of me.
I remember my first encounter on SFF. Back then, we couldn't see pictures of other members, in fact I don't remember if we even had pictures on our profiles. Anyway, this man sent me a message and asked if we could exchange pictures. We had chatted a little bit, so I said ok. We exchanged pictures, and he immediately wrote me back and told me that he was looking for the last great love of his life, and I certainly wasn't it. I was shocked at his rudeness!
I changed my profile to read, "old, fat, and ugly" so IF I ever met anyone in person or exchanged pictures again, nobody could say I lied in my profile, and maybe they would even be pleasantly surprised.
I don't even remember his name, but I sometimes wonder if he ever found anyone?


Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.


starwomyn 70F
8872 posts
7/29/2021 11:25 am

    Quoting MrsJoe:
    I've never paid much attention to what others might think of me.
    I remember my first encounter on SFF. Back then, we couldn't see pictures of other members, in fact I don't remember if we even had pictures on our profiles. Anyway, this man sent me a message and asked if we could exchange pictures. We had chatted a little bit, so I said ok. We exchanged pictures, and he immediately wrote me back and told me that he was looking for the last great love of his life, and I certainly wasn't it. I was shocked at his rudeness!
    I changed my profile to read, "old, fat, and ugly" so IF I ever met anyone in person or exchanged pictures again, nobody could say I lied in my profile, and maybe they would even be pleasantly surprised.
    I don't even remember his name, but I sometimes wonder if he ever found anyone?
Some men can be really shallow. They are looking for a top model when they look average themselves. Once they get the top model, she will be too skinny for them. I try to keep my photos of myself in SFF as honest and recent as possible. I mention my 'politically incorrect" curves. Sometimes if a guy asks for a recent photo, I send him a picture of me in my witchy mode when I was working at the Haunted Farm. It is kind of ironic that the one SFF member who called me "homely as F" never posts a profile with her picture.

Abracadabra


starwomyn 70F
8872 posts
7/29/2021 2:01 pm

    Quoting Nileyears:
    STAR!! You are far from being fugly and such a cutie in your youth. Personally, I could never get up on a stage and dance, I was way to shy back then. Lol, but not now! Too late!!
LOL! I wouldn't have any problems getting back on stage and dancing however I don't have the grace and flexibility that I used to. I can get on the floor but I need yoga blocks to get back up and it's not a pretty sight. I would probably take down the pole if I tried to climb it. My politically incorrect curves have expanded and my boobs look like the Playboy Granny's. I suppose I could use them to knock some sense into the head of some of the spectators instead of hitting them with my cane.

Abracadabra


Nileyears 71F
4208 posts
7/29/2021 2:11 pm

    Quoting starwomyn:
    LOL! I wouldn't have any problems getting back on stage and dancing however I don't have the grace and flexibility that I used to. I can get on the floor but I need yoga blocks to get back up and it's not a pretty sight. I would probably take down the pole if I tried to climb it. My politically incorrect curves have expanded and my boobs look like the Playboy Granny's. I suppose I could use them to knock some sense into the head of some of the spectators instead of hitting them with my cane.
Lol, I'm picturing the boobs knocking someone out!


lilium6 74F
4498 posts
7/29/2021 11:27 pm

I don't see anything 'wrong' with you - you are a very attractive woman. We can define our own beauty standards instead of allowing society to define what's worthy and acceptable/unacceptable. Look at the obsession with selfies and the lucrative beauty industry cashing in on women's insecurities/self hatred. A healthy society?