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Long Distance - Jealousy on the CyberChat???? Experience has made me a skeptic on Long Distance Romances via the Web. When the Reality does not meet the expectation of the fantasy............ Life on Life's Terms is the Mode. So I noted that there was a gentleman from another state who sent me a message that include his number at the Smiley Face Cafe. So I responded just because I can. I am been divorced since 2002 and I've had two relationships after-wards. Both went South. The last break-up was very painful thus I have not actively been seeking a relationship. If it happens fine but there will be no more break-ups in this Star's Life. Granted, my first recollection when chatting with the man was that he was from Oklahoma but upon checking his profile I realized that he was from Florida. So, He called me a liar, a player and stated that I was talking to other men. Yeah Right! Like I really have the time, or inclination to chat with a bunch of men. Who does he think he is. Five minutes at the Smiley Face Cafe and he thinks we have a full blown relationship and he knows who I am. Bah! I work in retail full time and take care of a woman in hospice after work. When I am not doing that, I am on my laptop catching up on FB or the Bay. When Spring comes, I'll be back on the hiking trails Geocaching but right now I just want to stay out of the snow. I spent my Birthday and all the holidays alone but better alone than with some schmuck who is going to ultimately betray me and cause a world of pain. I am still shell shock from the last break-up. I don't even regard SFF as a dating site. It's for networking with friends that I've known for years. Right now, I think the latest schmuck is in Florida. I might go to Florida to get away from the snow but I sure won't go to Florida to meet him. Bah Humbug!  Abracadabra  |
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1/14/2010 4:14 pm |
starwomyn: If you lined up 200 people; 100 of them women and 100 of the men - in each group you will find several (or many?) 'controllers' who will ALWAYS be possessive and all other sort of crappy/similar stuff. I'm sorry that you had that distinctly unpleasant experience, but ... ... Fact is (SERIOUSLY!) - better that you found out early on about his personality 'trait', rather than later. Both males and females will even behave that awful way with their same sex 'friends' - not only in their (maybe-supposedly) romantic relationship(s).
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This smuck doesn't live is Sarasota does he???  Abracadabra
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Is he by chance number one on the most popular list? I do check that out, just shows how active they have been and gives me an insight as to the possibility of a game player.
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Is he by chance number one on the most popular list? I do check that out, just shows how active they have been and gives me an insight as to the possibility of a game player. Abracadabra
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1/15/2010 11:53 am |
Star: If you come to Florida, make it a point to sit in my Oldsmobile with me.... and spend a night or two on my boat...... THAT, dear lady, is what REAL gentlemen are about!!!!..... P.S. Could you bring some good wine with you???
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