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REJECTION PART 2 Ok, here goes...lol...now this is not a sympathy vote whinge....just a subject that gets right up my nose...so far up that it can cause a blockage to the brain at times...lol...  ...& it is the brain that should be able to change your feelings....but at my age,I doubt it...although I do try... Just a little of my history first....I have been a widow for over 13 yrs now....1 short relationship in that time,ended by mutual agreement, no animosity....spent 10yrs attending to family & all related goings on...no thought of a relationship until all sorted.....then took 12 months to de-stress myself...lol...now time for me,decided I didn't want to be by myself any more.....sooooo to dating!!!!!! A friend suggested internet dating...lol...at the time I didn't even have a pc....go figure...but now, here I am,on a couple of sites... Now,here it comes...lol...you get hit on,you reply,they make contact,you meet,they continue to contact you through varies means.....if I'm not interested,I always answer & let them know why......sooooo, they are the ones doing most of the chasing....of course you are flattered,who wouldn't be huh...everything going great,then...WHAMMO....SILENCE!!!!!...they don't even have the courtest to answer you...that is the part that really hurts me the most!!! This has happened to me 4 times in the last 6 months....so you can see why I'm gutted...sometimes, I think,geeezzz maybe it is me...but I don't do nuffink wrong...I think it is a committment thingy with ppl. Well, I look back at the experiences & learn...& it is their LOSS...but now the barriers are nearly all the way up again...with just a little peaking area left...lolol Thanx for listening to me have a rave....but going back to the funnies now...this stuff just toooo draining... ...take care....stay happy...cheers....ChrisP.S...OMG...didn't mean to be sooooo long winded here...lol |
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4/30/2006 9:15 am |
Solo, no hun you hit the nail on the head and you didn't go on. I am sorry this has happened to you and I hope you know that i mean that. Keep smiling like you always do..........Crushedsilk
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4/30/2006 10:15 am |
Seems like they just like the chase. Very hard to understand what makes some people tick. Their loss not yours. Better luck next time.
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4/30/2006 12:43 pm |
Solochick, I to have been hurt, I figure its their loss not mine. People that do things like that have NO feelings or compassion. I am trying to work through my barriers, not an easy thing to do, but I am hopeful. God Bless, Smiles~Pam  and  ~Pam & SunshinePain & suffering are inevititable, but misery is optional.
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Solo..Big hug.. happens to more than we realize. Is 2 months too long to wait for another date? Just asking if I'm asking too much??? I guess he's either too busy..or not as "into" me as I am "into" him. Trying to be patient...ohhhh but so lonely. I just read a column about a 40+ woman asking for advice on how to deal with her husband not being intimate with her. The counselor said .."Well, we know he is not asexual. So he must be having sex with someone else..looking at porn... or gay...supposedly ...medical condition was ruled out. Is it that clear to people? Is it as black and white? I'm confused. Maybe I shouldn't be writing this..don't want to offend anyone. Tempted to erase this..but...they say it helps to talk it out????
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Yeah, just why do they do that!! LOL
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