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Jes4now 64F
4133 posts
8/27/2006 5:18 pm

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9/3/2006 4:34 am

Do you remember?

The Good 'Ole Days?

This is to everyone who wants to read my blog -

To those of us who have been here for years now and have actually met and developed friendships in reality - and - to those of us who have not been here so long - so you can get a glimpse of what SFF was like back in the day..

Back when I stumbled (cause that's what I did, stumbled onto this site) I did not know what to expect - never having been in chat before.. this is what I found over the years:

- Fun in chat - laughing and joking around with many 'chatters'

- Meeting chatters in person making them no longer a keyboard fixture but a real person.

- Developing long time friendships from those times of meetings.. luncheons, get togethers, bashes, parties.. whatever you want to call them.

Back when chat was fun do you remember? Just being able to go into a room (it had 3 rooms when I started) and laugh until your sides hurt? I could remember friends saying "my family thinks I've lost it laughing so hard in here by myself!"

I have witnessed, seen and felt lots of fun times laughter, hurts, heartaches friends being terminally ill, friends dying, friends having heart attacks, friends getting married, people coming together to support one another - do you remember?

Today we have the opposite - people purposely being rude and mean to one another - not coming together to uphold and support like it used to be - but to tear down and hurt... Why? What is the purpose?

Some people have not seven met the ones in person they tear down nor for that matter met the ones they stand with to help tear down, make judgments on issues that hold no value except to the people it involved. What is the purpose?

It's sad we lost what we once had -

To the ones who remember - why can't you /we live it again?

To the ones who are newer - can we share some stories of yesteryear's with you - so you can see how we once where here on SFF?

My challenge to the bloggers/chatters who remember.. forget today.. and think back.. tell us a time when you remember that was funny.. happy.. a time of yesteryear that you can share with us here..

Here's a song to kick it off.. Please leave a remembrance of happy times!

The Good 'Ole Days (to the music of Grandpa by the Judd's)

Blogger - tell me 'bout the good ole days
Sometimes it feels like - this sites gone crazy,
Chatter - take me back to yesterday
When the line between right and wrong - didn't seem so hazy...

Do lovers really fall in love to stay
to stand beside each other come what may
Is promise really something people kept
Not just something they would say - and then forget..
Do friends really come to chat and play
Do Bloggers really say what's meant to say
Oh Oh Chatter - tell me 'bout the good ole days..

Blogger everything is changing fast
we call it the times, but I just don't know
And Chatter let's wander back into the past
then paint us a picture of long ago..

Do lovers really fall in love to stay
to stand beside each other come what may
Is promise really something people kept
Not just something they would say - and then forget..
Do friends really come to chat and play
Do Bloggers really say what's meant to say
Oh Oh Chatter - tell me 'bout the good ole days.
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Thanks all.. happy blogging!!
Gina


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Find the humor each day holds.... Gina


fossilfetcher 76M

8/27/2006 5:54 pm

Jes,

The good old days were days of people having fun without agendas and chips on their shoulders. I joined SFF in 1999 and chatted on and off since that time. I met Lucy in a chat room and look what happened !!!

I remember the good old days with JLT2003 (who is still around), TomTwit, Queenie, SassySheBear, Yaya1950, KC52 (what a sweetie)!
I have sat and laughed till my sides hurt while watching the antics of these folks in chat.

It would be great to see the rooms return to normal. Dream on, Baby. Some people like the chaos too much.


I got a tattoo of Obama on my arm and it suddenly quit working


Jes4now replies on 8/27/2006 6:25 pm:
Fossil..

Thanks for your memories.. It made me smile.. knowing that fun was all it was meant to be.. kidding and laughing.. I too have many times laughed until sides hurt... and you have been part of them..

Yes!! you lucky man.. as lucy is lucky too!! SFF has been a good place for you both..

Now..about this 1999!! no wonder your name is Fossil!! rofl.

Love ya.. and thanks for sharing
Gina

Abelle2 83F
31237 posts
8/27/2006 6:58 pm

I have been chatting for almost a year and a half. I don't go in much lately but do still go. The last 2 times I went, it was almost like it used to be...fun. Yes I remember laughing so hard I was choking and wiping my eyes. I would think, lord if someone would walk in they would think I had lost it. I remember one time sheWolf had a group of us going somewhere by car, picking up others as we rode along. Sharing a glass of wine, getting each other coffee, making each other feel good...yes, I do miss all that! Hugs...Ann


Jes4now replies on 8/28/2006 3:49 am:
Ann..

lol.. I know .. sometimes my sides hurt I laughed so hard.. I had a virtual Bacci Ball game with KSman.. I won! lol.. he said I cheated! lol.. it was hysterical.. I love laughing.. it is not only good for the Spirit..it is good for the health.. May we all find that happiness again..

Thank you for sharing.. hugss
Gina

Lulu99 88F

8/27/2006 8:52 pm

Meme
First, let me say that I am so sorry for your loss
Remember me ? We shared the cab from the airport to Clearwater last year.

Fossil, I joined in '99 also ... It is unfortunate that the rooms have a bitter taste at times but I refuse to engage in that negativity. I've given up my gold membership because I have lost the enthusiasm for going in regularly.

I have met some real nice people that I am always happy to exchange with and look forward to possibly meeting old and new friends next year if things go well.

I sometimes think that people take things far too seriously. One doesn't get to see the twinkle in the eye when the writer is is teasing .... Just a thought.

Jes4 .. thanks for the thought provoking blog, and YES ... let's go back to the way it was .

Hugs to you all, Lulu


Jes4now replies on 8/28/2006 3:55 am:
Lulu..

Thank you for your sharings.. I hope to see your twinkle in chat someday.. and maybe in Oct...

People are wayyyy to serious lately.. we all need to take it a little lighter to kind of even the scales of hurt..negativity.. and unkindness..

hugss for your presences..
Gina

simpleladyb 74F

8/29/2006 4:18 am

Jes, certo che mi ricordo le belle tempi in chat. My friend, I remember them... Vec, you, me and some others.. we used to tease guys lol...those were the days my friend... they will no longer return....the chatroom has change a lot... Hugsss to you friend and stay as sweet as you are! Ciao......

Love,
Betty

From AZ With Love!


Jes4now replies on 8/29/2006 4:31 am:
simple..

Yes! Chat was a blast.. the teasing and laughing.. but I believe there will be days that are going to come back to us.. history always repeats itself.. and look at all the fun history we all have shared..

Believe it g/f.. it will be back..
hugss
Smile
Gina

Butterflypurple1 71F

8/29/2006 10:20 pm

Click click, there will be fun, there will be fun, lol, Jes it was fun, and lets hope it gets that way again, even if i am married i will still be game to jump in a hot tub with who ever.. rofl..


Jes4now replies on 8/30/2006 7:43 am:
BFP..g/f with people like yourself coming in.. we can't help but to have fun..

We really have had some fun times.. I loooovvveee my Aussie friends!! Woohoo!! I love the Aussie humor..and the way you can take things 2 ways!! On the good days.. I take them the good way.. on the bad days.. I take them the baaaaaaadddd way! lol.. the baddd way is much more fun!! ask our brother!! rofl..

But there have been so many Aussie friends here.. I can remember back.. well of course all the morning crew.. Mash.. Spot.. you.. gosh I don't want to miss anyone.. then there was of course Spot mentioned him.. Surfdriver.. and ahhhh my dear sweet Andy.. gosh I love that guy.. umm.. there is Stu... ccdominic..what a card he is.. umm Murray..or Musser rather.. Soleness.. Yowie.. Melbourne.. wish he was still around.. what a hoot he was.. Ann.. she was the one that explained 'dag' to me! lol.. Gosh..the words they had me saying! rofl.. I loved my trip to Australia.. next time I come.. you will have to be there! I know something came up..but I sure missed you and sexylegs.. take gentle care..

Thanks for sharing on my blog..oohh if you can remember who else I missed and the fun times over the rainbow.. please feel free to say!! I love to laugh..

hugss
Gina

Jes4now replies on 8/30/2006 7:44 am:
oops!!! I forgot.. to mention.. Greyfox!! How can I forget Ted!!! psst.. don't tell him...