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aquagem 78M
58 posts
11/8/2005 9:38 am

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3/5/2006 9:29 pm

HOW TO DEFEND YOURSELF IN SFF CHAT.


For starters let me say that seniorfriendfinder is a wondrous organization. It has divisions worldwide and fills a worthwhile need.I have been a member for a short period of time and the following are my observations.I have been in touch with some outstanding seniors whom i respect and admire.On the other side, i have been castigated by a handful of members for no apparent reason.Interference in my postingsand trying to have other members put me on ignore are commonplace. Normally i would ignore unpleasant comments directed at me but that would give credence to their mischievous behavior. there are 2 or more monitors scanning the chatrooms throught a 24 hour period of time.they chat with various members who they favor while taking note of those who violate sff rules of conduct.they favor silver and gold paying members over standard members when it comes down to chatroom abuse. this is what they are paid to do and do it well.members complain of whiteouts, missing blogs etc. Sff should ameliorate complaints of members who have been violated and not cater exclusively to silver and gold payees. My suggestion is to demand fair treatment whatever your status and let team friendfinder employees know that this the way to go. Report chatroom abuse and expect a reasonable response. I myself will sign on to gold membership when sff takes a fair and equitable reply to those that have been intimidated by pranksters. looking forward to more tranqil chat and an aura of friendliness for all. Will i go for the gold? i leave that up to sff. your comments are invited whether friends or detractors.My next blog will be stimulating, interesting and upbeat all positive.Aloha from hawaii my friends, till we meet again and bless seniorfriendfinder and all of its divisions which cement a bond and links people of caliber throughout the world.

lynxQ10 78F

11/8/2005 12:25 pm

post 8833) this article is an eye opener:have been in the chat room only once and wasn't responded to by several people .. 2 people said hell'o.don't care for the chat room..i am a standard member..thanks for the great article..

lynxQ10


aquagem 78M

11/8/2005 1:27 pm

cabriole,I promised myself i would not reply to posted comments being that i am not a vain person.Your the one exception. TY for your gracious sincere compliment. Read your latest blogs and was taken by your extraordinary command of the english language.Your recipes are yummy. Would love to spend a few days in your kitchen.Not only are you quite attractive but you have an amazing perspective on worldly and everyday matters.Will pay rapt attention to your blogs that excel and inform. you go the extra mime. only one other blogger falls into that category. Enjoy the moment. Keep blogging fair one.


Korallinda1 70F

11/9/2005 6:27 am

MY FRIEND,
IS A REALITY HERE..AGREE WIT YOU.AM NOT PAY MEMBER..NO BECAUSE NOT HAVE MONEY, BUT IS TO ME... A THING VERY SMOL...NO..THE PEOPLE NECESSITY MORE A GOOD VISION ABOUT VALUE HUMAN!
HAVE SAID, FRIEND. ARE CORECT!
Korallinda MEMBER FREE!


Bo38 85F

11/9/2005 7:10 am

Nice post!


smiley1027 71F

11/9/2005 6:32 pm

I know exactly what you mean. I don't know if you've noticed but I don't stay online very long because nobody bothers to talk to me. They have their own little cliques and to heck with the rest of us. I am only a standard member and I don't plan on being a gold or silver member because of the way these people treat me. When I see you in one of the chatrooms, I will say aloha!!!! from the really cold province of New Brunswick.


Abelle2 83F
31237 posts
11/12/2005 11:47 am

I have only once had something directed to me, unfairly and I will now just leave whenever I see arguing...not participating I believe sends a stronger message. To follow Lothringia's message I too say AMEN Aloha to you.