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Darter50516 66M
5669 posts
5/7/2022 10:42 pm
Bad News



I been on the phone with mom. She was crying and quite upset. My older sister has been diagnosed with stomach cancer. While those who have known me over the years know I have yet to say anything nice about my evil older sister ... I am troubled. and unsettled tonight.
She used to tell me if I didn't obey her I'd end up like my other brothers.... buried under the front porch.... The dirt was kinda dug around under the front porch when I'd peek under to verify.


Darter50516 66M
3857 posts
5/7/2022 10:47 pm

Hell of a Mother's Day...... I got her an Orchid corsage to wear to church and a small box of mixed German chocolates. As for me I am stunned to a stupor.. Oxys thank Gawd for Oxys........ I really need Gin & Tonic


MrsJoe 76F
17400 posts
5/7/2022 11:22 pm

Oh my..... when it rains it pours. I can imagine the emotions that are assailing you right now. Advising you to stay calm is useless. I wish I could be there, just to sit there with you for awhile. Peace is what you need.
Just take each day, an hour at a time, and reach for that supernatural peace.


Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.


Maudie1 74F
8151 posts
5/8/2022 2:51 am

So sorry for your loss. May your sister rest in peace.


Abelle2 83F
31231 posts
5/8/2022 5:27 am

May God bless you. Your sister is in a better place now.


StarCandy1 69F
1811 posts
5/8/2022 8:09 am

Sorry to hear about ur sister. There r a lot of cancer survivors. Praying she will be one ! If U can't be strong for ur sister..be strong for ur mother ! Happy Mother's Day Darter Mom ! HUGS


Darter50516 66M
3857 posts
5/8/2022 10:50 am

    Quoting MrsJoe:
    Oh my..... when it rains it pours. I can imagine the emotions that are assailing you right now. Advising you to stay calm is useless. I wish I could be there, just to sit there with you for awhile. Peace is what you need.
    Just take each day, an hour at a time, and reach for that supernatural peace.

SIZE 5] They ended up having to sedate mom. I seriously wish I could have a good strong drink.


Darter50516 66M
3857 posts
5/8/2022 10:52 am

    Quoting MrsJoe:
    Oh my..... when it rains it pours. I can imagine the emotions that are assailing you right now. Advising you to stay calm is useless. I wish I could be there, just to sit there with you for awhile. Peace is what you need.
    Just take each day, an hour at a time, and reach for that supernatural peace.

They ended up having to sedate mom. I seriously wish I could have a good strong drink. Bombay Sapphire & Tonic


Darter50516 66M
3857 posts
5/8/2022 10:53 am

    Quoting Maudie1:
    So sorry for your loss. May your sister rest in peace.
She has not gone yet. I am just angry she told mom the day before Mother's Day. She always was an inconsiderate bytch.


Darter50516 66M
3857 posts
5/8/2022 10:54 am

    Quoting Abelle2:
    May God bless you. Your sister is in a better place now.
She has not passed yet. She will need Chemo and all kinds of other stuff.


Darter50516 66M
3857 posts
5/8/2022 10:57 am

    Quoting StarCandy1:
    Sorry to hear about ur sister. There r a lot of cancer survivors. Praying she will be one ! If U can't be strong for ur sister..be strong for ur mother ! Happy Mother's Day Darter Mom ! HUGS
Mmmm I took Mom to church with her orchid corsage I didn't do dinner I needed to get home to do my on meds. Raining cats & dogs here.


Maudie1 74F
8151 posts
5/8/2022 11:45 am

    Quoting Darter50516:
    She has not gone yet. I am just angry she told mom the day before Mother's Day. She always was an inconsiderate bytch.
So sorry about that , silly me. I don't know how I made such a stupid mistake. Sending prayers and positive thoughts your way.


Cherub8 90F
6 posts
5/8/2022 12:17 pm

Prayers


Darter50516 66M
3857 posts
5/8/2022 1:12 pm

    Quoting Maudie1:
    So sorry about that , silly me. I don't know how I made such a stupid mistake. Sending prayers and positive thoughts your way.
Your prayers are the most important medication anyone could ask for. Almighty God's intervention exceeds the skills of our medical fields.


Darter50516 66M
3857 posts
5/8/2022 3:21 pm

    Quoting Archer62:
    WHAT YOU SAY IS VERY SIMILAR TO WHAT I FELT WHEN MY MOTHER'S CANCER WAS ANNOUNCED. WE NEVER GOT ALONG AND ALTHOUGH HER DEATH WAS A GREAT RELIEF FOR MANY PEOPLE, I STILL FELT SORRY FOR WHAT SHE WENT THROUGH. GO FIGURE.
I wish to assure you I did not deliberately or with malice omit responding to your touching comment. It just now appeared hours after posting.


Darter50516 66M
3857 posts
5/8/2022 3:22 pm

The most effective medication.


Nileyears 71F
4208 posts
5/9/2022 9:58 am

I'm so sorry to hear about your sister's diagnosis and I can relate to your mixed feelings about it. I also had an evil sister, but we didn't actually call her evil, we just thought she had a few wires crossed, but she was mean!

She had this game she played with me, she'd be real sweet, then she'd stab me in the back. After years of forgiving her the horrible things she would do to me, I couldn't play her game any longer and cut off all communication with her.

My niece called me to let me know my sister had died, then came back to life requesting her to get in touch with me. My niece did what she asked. I went to see her in the hospital, she asked me to forgive her for the cruelty she caused me throughout our lives. I told her that I always had forgiven her, I just didn't want to be hurt again. She died the next day.

She was diagnosed with cancer and was gone within 10 months of that diagnosis. I always have wondered if she was sent back because of unfinished business here on Earth? My niece seems to think so because of the things she told her when she came back after her first death. She was not revived, she came back on her own.


Darter50516 66M
3857 posts
5/9/2022 12:09 pm

    Quoting Nileyears:
    I'm so sorry to hear about your sister's diagnosis and I can relate to your mixed feelings about it. I also had an evil sister, but we didn't actually call her evil, we just thought she had a few wires crossed, but she was mean!

    She had this game she played with me, she'd be real sweet, then she'd stab me in the back. After years of forgiving her the horrible things she would do to me, I couldn't play her game any longer and cut off all communication with her.

    My niece called me to let me know my sister had died, then came back to life requesting her to get in touch with me. My niece did what she asked. I went to see her in the hospital, she asked me to forgive her for the cruelty she caused me throughout our lives. I told her that I always had forgiven her, I just didn't want to be hurt again. She died the next day.

    She was diagnosed with cancer and was gone within 10 months of that diagnosis. I always have wondered if she was sent back because of unfinished business here on Earth? My niece seems to think so because of the things she told her when she came back after her first death. She was not revived, she came back on her own.
My sister is already dead to me....I got tired of her crackheaded shit trying to rip me off. Cops Stopped ME thinking they'd caught her. I asked them Do I look like a crackwhoreee? Wanna see my wee wee???? She could not afford a Beemer or a Mercedes unless the crackdealer let her drive....