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StarCandy1 69F
333 posts
1/31/2023 7:19 pm
Boys r stupid

So grandkid gets off the school bus and gets into my car, slumps down into seat. She says, " I need rejection ice cream ! " Now with all the new stuff lately, I'm thinking rejection from what ? Granted pre- is starting way too early now...she said she asked a boy twice to be her Valentine and he said no twice ! So we get in the driveway and she says, " Am I ugly ? " Well it came out " BOYS R STUPID ! " Well guess who got ice cream ?????
As not to offend a man's ego, I hope U see that I was referring to little boys who break hearts of little girls. The funny thing is though ..... That is exactly what my told her ! Either I've said it to my or we think alike ! LOL

StarCandy1 69F
1788 posts
1/31/2023 7:19 pm

 pre-teens .... YIKES !


Steamboy_2472 64M
410 posts
1/31/2023 7:42 pm

 I resemble that remark 😂😂


StarCandy1 replies on 1/31/2023 7:44 pm:
LOL

Darter50516 66M
3857 posts
1/31/2023 9:15 pm

 I am so glad to be childless.......


StarCandy1 replies on 2/1/2023 12:25 pm:
I love this kid more than life itself. That is y I'm here ! I just find it funny that me and my daughter said the same thing to her ! LOL

Koffla 68M
12182 posts
1/31/2023 10:03 pm

I don't want to grow up!


StarCandy1 replies on 2/1/2023 12:26 pm:
I used to say that too !
I was a Toys R Us kid for 28 years until they closed down in 2018

hermitinthecity 70M
1695 posts
2/1/2023 2:52 am

 But he exercised his right to say no for his own reasons. Perhaps her attitude on previous occasions when she didn't get her own way was enough for the no?
Judgment Day will be interesting - and all paths lead there.


StarCandy1 replies on 2/1/2023 12:36 pm:
I've said NO a lot of times ! Mainly because I have thought boys were stupid for a long time and they say and do stupid things.
And I am talking about a 10 year old ! It has nothing to do with getting her own way.

bondjam33 70M
840 posts
2/1/2023 5:32 am
    Quoting hermitinthecity:
    But he exercised his right to say no for his own reasons. Perhaps her attitude on previous occasions when she didn't get her own way was enough for the no?
Interesting that teaching misandry from generation to generation is OK but misogyny is a strict no no.


StarCandy1 replies on 2/1/2023 12:42 pm:
U r so wrong about that ! I have taught my daughter to be a strong person. To know she is worthy of a good man. And hope for the best as we get older ! Speaking from experience, men do realize they have something great until they lose it ! That's y I choose the single life now ! I think most men r an older version of boys. By age only, they still need to be spanked !

hermitinthecity 70M
1695 posts
2/1/2023 6:30 am
    Quoting bondjam33:
    Interesting that teaching misandry from generation to generation is OK but misogyny is a strict no no.
How on earth is that misogyny? He just said no. It's nothing to do with misogyny.
Judgment Day will be interesting - and all paths lead there.


Nileyears 71F
4208 posts
2/1/2023 6:51 am

 Girls can say no and it's ok, so why can't a boy say no without being called a stupid boy? Also something to think about is "comfort food", not a good idea. Rejection is a part of life, not everyone is going to like you and we aren't going to like everyone we meet either.


StarCandy1 replies on 2/1/2023 12:48 pm:
I'm talking about a 10 year old ! She hasn't had time to experience life ! It was just a quick response for me to say and funny thing is my daughter said the same thing ! My opinion is stupid boys turn into stupid men who act like stupid boys at any age.

StarCandy1 69F
1788 posts
2/1/2023 1:09 pm

 U all r taking this too serious ! I'm talking about a 10 year old who hasn't experienced "LIFE" But, because of something as trivial as a boy saying no, she feels ugly, or less of a person. Everybody has feelings ! I just thought it was funny of my grandkid to respond the way she did !
This is not politics ! It's funny how people can turn it around as a defense protecting boy's feelings !


Nileyears 71F
4208 posts
2/1/2023 7:44 pm
    Quoting StarCandy1:
    U all r taking this too serious ! I'm talking about a 10 year old who hasn't experienced "LIFE" But, because of something as trivial as a boy saying no, she feels ugly, or less of a person. Everybody has feelings ! I just thought it was funny of my grandkid to respond the way she did !
    This is not politics ! It's funny how people can turn it around as a defense protecting boy's feelings !
Ooohhhhhh, she's ten!! I hated boys when I was ten! LOL, at that age I would rather deck one then ask if they'd be my Valentine!!

I go through the "I'm ugly" with my grandson. He's far from ugly, in fact, he's really a handsome young man.

Maybe you should get her in a self defense class so she can defend herself from all the boys in the future. Tell her pretty girls need to know this stuff to fight off all the boys. That should make her feel better about herself.

When I was 14 some guy kept trying to force himself on me, I'd never been kissed by a boy yet and when I told him no about three times and to stop, he wouldn't. So I punched him in the jaw and knocked him out cold. I left him on the ground and walked away... laughing!!!


starwomyn 70F
8871 posts
2/5/2023 12:19 am

 Ice Creme has generally been the way I deal with heartbreak caused by "Stupid Men."
Abracadabra


bondjam33 70M
840 posts
2/6/2023 9:48 am
    Quoting hermitinthecity:
    How on earth is that misogyny? He just said no. It's nothing to do with misogyny.
I was not referring to the boy but to the generational 'wisdom' that (quote) "BOYS R STUPID".

If a grandson had come out with 'GIRLS R SISSIES" would that have een rewarded with ice cream?


bondjam33 70M
840 posts
2/6/2023 9:50 am
    Quoting bondjam33:
    Interesting that teaching misandry from generation to generation is OK but misogyny is a strict no no.
Your response simply exacerbates the situation. Now you are not only preaching misandry but stereotyping in order to do so.
Stop digging, the hole is big enough already.




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