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Koffla 68M
1264 posts
11/14/2022 1:29 am
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Koffla 68M
12269 posts
11/14/2022 1:31 am


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Rocketship 80F
18578 posts
11/14/2022 4:12 am

Exactly!!


Koffla 68M
12269 posts
11/14/2022 6:35 am




Hawkslayer 88M
13331 posts
11/14/2022 6:49 am

I totally agree with you on this. Glad you brought it up!

It only takes a drop of ink to make a million people think. There are many stories.


DAYLILI 82F
149 posts
11/14/2022 6:50 am

I too have had run-ins with him. Glad you could reveal what he is all about. I am also not too sure about the cancer diagnosis.


Koffla 68M
12269 posts
11/14/2022 6:54 am

    Quoting DAYLILI:
    I too have had run-ins with him. Glad you could reveal what he is all about. I am also not too sure about the cancer diagnosis.

It will be impossible to know anything about that type of narrative. It is impossible to know whether it is true or not. My mother died of cancer. If is true, I wish him good luck.

I've been around the internet and blogs long enough to know that there are people out there who create imaginary illnesses looking for sympathy. Years ago at another blogging site, a guy faked his own death...

If you read the 3rd screenshot, his friend is concerned about his health, "I hope the cute docs in Waterloo can get you the help you need to kick this cancer to the curb, I am hoping the best for you."

His reply to his friend's concern is,"that fucker in SFF has overtaken me. I posted in there."


Koffla 68M
12269 posts
11/14/2022 6:59 am

    Quoting Hawkslayer:
    I totally agree with you on this. Glad you brought it up!

Thank you Alfie.


lilium6 74F
4498 posts
11/14/2022 10:44 am

Rebel without a cause? I wish him well and hope he addresses whatever is troubling him. It seems you have become a convenient target for his frustration.


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
11/14/2022 12:03 pm

T'is the season of rutting bucks.......


Koffla 68M
12269 posts
11/14/2022 2:19 pm

    Quoting lilium6:
    Rebel without a cause? I wish him well and hope he addresses whatever is troubling him. It seems you have become a convenient target for his frustration.

No comment.


Koffla 68M
12269 posts
11/14/2022 2:24 pm

    Quoting sparkleflit:
    T'is the season of rutting bucks.......

One thing I miss about living in the farming community of Pottstown, Pennsylvania, is watching deer all over the field early in the morning


maudie1957 74F
1268 posts
11/14/2022 3:42 pm

I must say I have noticed some of the sly digs at you from time to time. I don't understand what that is all about. Who cares who the top blogger is anyway.


dusty17 73M
492 posts
11/14/2022 4:43 pm

Hilarious


Shartaun03 81F
6199 posts
11/14/2022 6:07 pm

Wow Kofla....I never noticed those comments. He comments on my blog at times but nothing like that. I best be more aware of him. His stuff stands out as he uses the biggest font think plus that blue color. A lot of it doesn't make sense.


Koffla 68M
12269 posts
11/15/2022 3:58 am

    Quoting maudie1957:
    I must say I have noticed some of the sly digs at you from time to time. I don't understand what that is all about. Who cares who the top blogger is anyway.

Some people have nothing going on in their lives, so they need this to feel complete or validated.


Koffla 68M
12269 posts
11/15/2022 3:59 am


I think is pathetic actually.


Koffla 68M
12269 posts
11/15/2022 4:01 am

    Quoting Shartaun03:
    Wow Kofla....I never noticed those comments. He comments on my blog at times but nothing like that. I best be more aware of him. His stuff stands out as he uses the biggest font think plus that blue color. A lot of it doesn't make sense.

In my opinion, those people who use the biggest font available are those who need a lot of attention.


Robyn363 83F
3474 posts
11/15/2022 4:33 am

Being top of the blogs is hard work - who would want to be there


CarolinaPanther9 62F
393 posts
11/15/2022 7:38 am

So, Darter is as fake as the day is long? I'm not surprised. I didn't buy his bs stories from the start. You see everyone falling for his bs here, and he takes full advantage of every bit of it. All of his woe is me bull crap is probably just that...bull crap.


Koffla 68M
12269 posts
11/15/2022 7:48 am

    Quoting CarolinaPanther9:
    So, Darter is as fake as the day is long? I'm not surprised. I didn't buy his bs stories from the start. You see everyone falling for his bs here, and he takes full advantage of every bit of it. All of his woe is me bull crap is probably just that...bull crap.

Is like they said, give someone enough rope ....


Koffla 68M
12269 posts
11/15/2022 7:51 am

    Quoting Robyn363:
    Being top of the blogs is hard work - who would want to be there

Obviously this person is obsessed with being the top blogger, that he is begging his friends to post tons of comments in his blog. Only losers do that.


CarolinaPanther9 62F
393 posts
11/15/2022 9:01 am

    Quoting Koffla:

    Obviously this person is obsessed with being the top blogger, that he is begging his friends to post tons of comments in his blog. Only losers do that.


I can't remember who it was, but a while back there was someone else here who was obsessed with being top blogger. I wish I could remember who it was. Maybe they're one and the same.


Koffla 68M
12269 posts
11/15/2022 9:20 am

    Quoting CarolinaPanther9:
    I can't remember who it was, but a while back there was someone else here who was obsessed with being top blogger. I wish I could remember who it was. Maybe they're one and the same.

I don't get some people's obsession with being top blogger. Only someone having no life pays attention to numbers in a glitch broken-down site.

What gets me is when a person have such low-esteem that instead of getting there in his/her own merits, begs/recruits others to do their dirty deeds. Sounds like something that Trump will do.

Did you hear the latest from John Kelly? Trump wanted IRS investigations on his perceived enemies. What a loser. I am glad all the Trump 2020 election deniers lost their 2022 elections, including Kari Lake in Arizona.


StarCandy1 69F
1810 posts
11/15/2022 10:45 am

As far as blogs go .... SFF has the best blogs mostly. I enjoy most of them. If U look at the scorecard of blogs.... Hawkslayer is the king !!!!! If U combined everyone, Hawk would probably still lead the pack. I don't remember that blog Darter put. I do remember he would compete with a woman in FF for blogs.
I'm very sorry if anything I have said in comments in blogs were taken out as being hurtful. Was not my intent. I try to be a good hearted person, but also try to stay true to myself and be me (not lie). If U notice I don't respond to some blogs because politics and religion get too many hateful words. Half the people on any site, U have to believe only half what U see.
As far as cancer goes..that is nothing to be fake about. I've seen so many wither away and die from it.
I hope everyone keeps sharing their wonderful blogs with pics, memories, funnies and knowledge


Koffla 68M
12269 posts
11/15/2022 11:39 am

    Quoting StarCandy1:
    As far as blogs go .... SFF has the best blogs mostly. I enjoy most of them. If U look at the scorecard of blogs.... Hawkslayer is the king !!!!! If U combined everyone, Hawk would probably still lead the pack. I don't remember that blog Darter put. I do remember he would compete with a woman in FF for blogs.
    I'm very sorry if anything I have said in comments in blogs were taken out as being hurtful. Was not my intent. I try to be a good hearted person, but also try to stay true to myself and be me (not lie). If U notice I don't respond to some blogs because politics and religion get too many hateful words. Half the people on any site, U have to believe only half what U see.
    As far as cancer goes..that is nothing to be fake about. I've seen so many wither away and die from it.
    I hope everyone keeps sharing their wonderful blogs with pics, memories, funnies and knowledge

Star, thank you. I don't pay attention to the scorecards of blogs, and I don't know anyone who does. Obviously your friend does, and is obsessed with being number one.

Being competitive is one thing, but putting others down, calling them names, and recruiting his friends to help him reach the top of the list is another. My mom died of cancer, so I know what it is watching a love one die from it.

He is also not giving too much credibility to his diagnosis, when his friend is wishing him well on his diagnosis, and he ignores the well wishes and his reply is asking his friend to come to SFF to comment on his blogs.

This is not about politics or religion, even though some people here take the blogs too far. This is about a person who I don't know nor care to know, writing insults in FriendFinder towards me, and recruiting his friends to help him become top blogger. What he is doing is a sign of an insecure person who needs to cheat to reach his goal. Once a cheater, always a cheater.