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[B][COLOR orangered][I]Love is like a friendship caught on fire[/I][/COLOR][/B], [COLOR blue][B]In the beginning a flame, very pretty, warm and comforting, but light and flickering. A love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, Deep-burning and unquenchable....[/B]..[/COLOR]
Southern Cal gentleman, 5'10", salt and pepper hair (gray starting to come in more and more), single and unattached (except for my pooch Melanie), handsome, attractive(so I've been told), intelligent, spiritually evolved with a well developed and strong psychic/intuitive sense, sensual/passionate, independent, cultured/well-mannerered, romantic, cerebral, well dressed, charming, emotionally stable (sometimes), a little hyper and a little mellow, healthy and fit.
Great physical shape, still play basketball with the younger s in the neighborhood,
Enjoy swimming, hiking, biking, spontaneous escapades, visiting friends, Vegas every now and then, love s and trucks, as well as an old Porsche.
Still enjoy the conventional, excited by the unconventional.
Seeking lady who is outgoing, equally intelligent, creative, witty, and mentally challenging, enjoys occasional battle of wit, (a mind is a terrible thing to waste), knows that the most sensual part of a woman (or man) is what is between her ears,not her legs, the warmest part of her is her heart and soul, expects to be treated like a lady because she is a lady.
Love to go on long walks, moongaze, we wish on the stars, sunsetgaze, sunrisegaze, theatre, concerts, dancing, barbecue, movies, or just slow dancing and smootching in front of the fireplace.
Very passionate man about loving and romance(kissing, fondling, cuddling).
Still an "old school" 'gentle'man,(thank you Mom and Deddy) bring you flowers, hold hands, open doors for you, kiss you goodnite and good morning, public display of affection, honor our friendship, honest and sincere, mail you love gs and inspiration, surprise you with unexpected gifts, make you chicken soup when you hurt.
I believe there is a lady out there that can read a man's character through touch, breath and heat. I seek the lady who knows the power of perfectly placed kiss, a whisper, a glance, one who can bring a man to brink of madness and slowly take him over the edge,
There are no perfect people, i am not exception. i want to go forward without looking back. i want to travel and leave a light step behind. life is great but short. i don't want to lose my chance to become happier.don't want anyoone to look at my lacks , see only my dignities. Try , maybe you'll be lucky? I am STRONG because I am weak I am Beautiful because I know my flaws I am a LOVER because I'm a fighter I am Fearless because i have been afraid I am WISE because i have been foolish ....... I can LAUGH because I've known sadness
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My Ideal Person
I will only accept the very best of what you have to offer.. nothing less will do....
You come to the realization that you deserve to be treated with love, kindness, sensitivity and respect and you decide you won't settle for less. And you allow only the hands of a lover who cherishes you to glorify you with his or her touch... and in the process you internalize the meaning of self-respect. And you learn that your body really is your temple. And you begin to care for it and treat it with respect. You begin eating a balanced diet, drinking more water and taking more time to exercise. You learn that fatigue diminishes the spirit and can create doubt and fear. So you take more time to rest. And, just as food fuels the body, laughter fuels our soul. So you take more time to laugh and to play.
You learn that for the most part, in life, you get what you believe you deserve..and that much of life truly is a self-fulfilling prophecy. You learn that anything worth achieving is worth working for and that wishing for something to happen is different than working toward making it happen. More importantly, you learn that in order to achieve success you need direction, discipline and perseverance. You also learn that no one can do it all alone and that it's OK to risk asking for help.
You learn that the only thing you must truly fear is the great robber baron of all time: FEAR itself. You learn to step right into and through your fears, because you know that whatever happens you can handle it and to give in to fear is to give away the right to live life on your terms. And you learn to fight for your life and not to squander it living under a cloud of impending doom. You learn that life isn't always fair, you don't always get what you think you deserve and that sometimes "bad" things happen to unsuspecting, good people. On these occasions you learn not to personalize things. You learn that God isn't punishing you or failing to answer your prayers. It's just life happening. And you learn to deal with evil in its most primal state: the ego.
You learn that negative feelings such as anger, envy and resentment must be understood and redirected or they will suffocate the life out of you and poison the universe that surrounds you. You learn to admit when you are wrong and to building bridges instead of walls. You learn to be thankful and to take comfort in many of the simple things we take for granted, things that millions of people upon the earth can only dream about: a full refrigerator, clean running water, a soft warm bed, a long hot shower.
Slowly, you begin to take responsibility for yourself by yourself and you make yourself a promise never to betray yourself and never, ever to settle for less than your heart's desire. And you hang a wind chime outside your window so you can listen to the wind. And you make a point to keep smiling, to keep trusting and to stay open to every wonderful possibility.
Zip-pity do da
zip-pity a
my oh my what a wonderful day
plenty of sunshine heading my way
zip-pity do da zip pity a
YOU AND I ARE VERY passionate about life and living, heart of gold, sensitive, caring, quite/shy, outgoing, young at heart, liberal/conservative, woman for all seasons. Our love for each other is undaunted. We will always remember our first kiss(es), first dance, cool songs, and red hot love.Still able to hike a volcano, yet go dancing in the evening, bubblebath with candles and wine, We give each other massages, fireside chats with a whole bunch of kisses, nylons and heels to levis and tanktops, agressive but yet submissive,
slow dancing in my living room, mental tennis on real life issues. Mutual respect for our minds and bodies.
Am I asking too much? Probably NOT. We feed off of each others physical and non-physical (metaphysical)energy and lots of chemistry, down to the bone marrow.
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