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In Progress 1/4/2005 A relationship in progress is a very nice time; it's new with no 'history' to spat about or, ideally, unrealistic expectations. <br> <br> I have a few phone conversations with a la 0 Comments, 85 Views, 0 Votes | |
Another 'Honesty' 1/2/2005 Much has been written here about honesty and expectations of honesty. <br> <br> How much 'honesty' is enough? Even in a real life meeting with another I really don't expect, or re 0 Comments, 48 Views, 0 Votes | |
Easier Said. 12/30/2004 There are times when it is harder to 'say' it than to 'do it' whatever the 'its' might be. <br> <br> For example, when I told my lady 'it's over, ' it was a result of care reflectio 0 Comments, 154 Views, 0 Votes | |
Rules 12/29/2004 Generally speaking, I don't like rules. Rules are for the ruled and the insecure who surrender to authority to limit their potential outside the rules. <br> <br> Religions have rul 0 Comments, 71 Views, 0 Votes | |
Sex 12/27/2004 Sex is more fun than baseball and I've played both. <br> <br> I'm just not interested in sex anymore. Perhaps this comes from relatioship disappointments or just the cultural emphas 0 Comments, 79 Views, 0 Votes | |
As Bad As It Might Get 12/27/2004 I couldn't wait to get to this area to share with all of this situation. <br> <br> On another 'dating' service, I offered a lady my phone number via email...... <br> < 0 Comments, 44 Views, 0 Votes | |
Substance 12/27/2004 I confess I have, when much younger, consumed vast amount of party drugs and alcohol. Of course, when happen along we all become instant hypocrites as they go screaming into their teens. <br& 0 Comments, 48 Views, 0 Votes | |
Jazz 12/26/2004 I can think of no better analogy to a personal relationship than jazz. <br> <br> When I put on my musician's cap and sit in on a jazz session it is usually with musicians I'm perfo 0 Comments, 76 Views, 0 Votes | |
Rejection 12/25/2004 What is it about rejection people take so personally? <br> <br> Why did the ex take it so bad that I rejected her offer of X-Mas Eve intimacy? <br> <br> Because I r 0 Comments, 158 Views, 0 Votes | |
Religion And Relationships 12/25/2004 First of all, I am NOT an atheist. <br> <br> One of the survey questions here during sign asked if I would trust someone more who attended religious services regularly. THAT wa 0 Comments, 71 Views, 0 Votes | |
Control? 12/24/2004 I don't think we are responsible for the actions of others although many of us have been blamed and /or assumed blame in the past. <br> <br> <br> That dance goes like 0 Comments, 48 Views, 0 Votes | |
Thinning The Herd? 12/24/2004 I was giving this 'dating safety' thing some thought last evening. A question kept nagging me like an ex who didn't find what she wanted with the lawn care guy. <br> <br> Has human 0 Comments, 204 Views, 0 Votes | |
Relationship Construction? 12/24/2004 I have a theory about this concept. It is based on the fable, The Scorpion And The Frog. <br> According to Aesop, a frog hopped out onto a riverbank to be confronted by a scorpion. The sco 0 Comments, 135 Views, 0 Votes | |
Mistakes I Won't Make Again, Maybe 12/23/2004 After she spends a lot of time and money at the beauty parlor, I will never put the top down on the car when we go out.....even if it was an improvement. Even if she likes the wine, she gets two gl 0 Comments, 113 Views, 0 Votes | |
I said," No Thanks," Lately... 12/23/2004 It was to by soon to be ex to her question, "Maybe, someday we'll re-marry." <br> NO THANKS. <br> <br> That was good practice and it felt good. <br> I received 0 Comments, 145 Views, 0 Votes | |
First Date? Come On Over..... 12/23/2004 I am a firm believer that a first date must be comfortable as possible for both people. I have not had a first date recently, but know where we meet must have activity going on which fosters a poss 0 Comments, 257 Views, 0 Votes | |
Advice on Advice 12/23/2004 I have recently observed that many people have been offering me advice lately as my court daye arrives and even before the filing....well, even during the marriage. 'Advice' can be very noiusy, con 0 Comments, 85 Views, 0 Votes | |
Ouch! 12/23/2004 I'm over the 'ouch' part now of a failed marriage. As the court date arrives, I am thinking about the day after and where I want to be. I haven't really figured that part out yet but I hope there w 0 Comments, 33 Views, 0 Votes |
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