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drcuddle61 63 M
3  Articles
How soon to French kiss?   7/1/2006

I enjoy the intimacy of French kissing. I think next to the French Fry and the Eiffel Tower is ranks in the top 3 of things we got from the European country. <br> The main question is how soon and how much tongue to use. I generally kiss open mouth anytime after the first date but I allow my partner to initiate any tongue action. Different people tolerate different amounts and ...


10 Comments, 274 Views, 14 Votes ,5.38 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
online dating   7/1/2006

Have been discussing this "online dating" business with many people since I started to get involved with SFF. And have wondered why so many parents were talking about it, because they have teenagers at home.I didn't figure it could be as bad as what they made it out to be. As I skip thru the different sites checking to see what each one was about, I came across a man and 2 woman engaged in ...


2 Comments, 141 Views, 16 Votes ,6.36 Score
bklynblueeyes19 74 F
31  Articles
Let's meet   6/19/2006

That pitter patter of the heart on first talking to someone who seems interesting. The first conversation is so easy. That second phone call and you are hearing some disturbing things. Then the person says " why won't you meet me in a public place at least" The answer is; if you cannot engage in several conversations to see if there are mutual interests, etc., then what is the purpose ...


0 Comments, 41 Views, 122 Votes ,0.85 Score
bklynblueeyes19 74 F
31  Articles
Be the tortoise, not the hare   6/19/2006

Experienced uses of chat and internet dating have learned, albeit with some mishaps, the importance of being patient, and not rushing into something. Giving out your personal email, phone number, address to someone you have just met will only endanger, not enhance your meeting with the stranger. If there is truly something positive to develop between two people, maybe we should all tread ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 37 Votes ,7.72 Score
bklynblueeyes19 74 F
31  Articles
Alice in Wonderland   6/19/2006

Why do some men seem like the rabbit in "Alice in Wonderland"? They are in such a hurry to meet, that they never inquire as to distance of travel, or even to get to know you before offering to meet in person. Several emails and phone conversations provide an excellent opportunity for both parties to hear things that they might like or dislike. Also, men should realize that women do not ...


0 Comments, 35 Views, 31 Votes ,5.64 Score
bklynblueeyes19 74 F
31  Articles
Forget the coffee shops indeed!!!   6/19/2006

Most of the old English mystery shows portrayed the villian in some dark, foggy park....lurking in search of his next unsuspecting lady. Common sense tells us that a well- it, populated shop would be far safer than an isolated area where one is neither sure of the escape route nor sure of whom she is meeting. Better safe than sorry.


0 Comments, 47 Views, 34 Votes ,2.88 Score
Goodsoul51 72 M
20  Articles
Safety & Survival Signals for Women   6/19/2006

The Gift of Fear <br> and Other Survival Signals That Protect Us From Violence <br> By Gavin de Becker <br> <br> <br> The following is taken from pages 210-212. <br> There are many reliable pre-incident indicators associated with spousal violence and murder. They won't all be present in every case, but if a situation has ...


0 Comments, 95 Views, 18 Votes ,6.54 Score
gentlewar 75 M
22  Articles
Black Belt Approved, STOP , LEARN IN 5 MINUTE KUNG FU-   6/19/2006

$1 SELL ONLY. PTF - Protect The Family Political Party MTBSW* 60% of incarcerated for ! 1/3 females, 1/7 males ! NO THERAPY RUINS ’S LIVES!! Black Belt Approved STOP ! LEARN IN 5 MINUTE KUNG FU. An attacker grabs your arm, QUICKLY twist it towards his thumb, while using your ARM against his THUMB. Strong attackers ...


0 Comments, 73 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
gentlewar 75 M
22  Articles
STALKERS   6/19/2006

STALKERS <<When you have an "unlisted" number, you pay repeated charge. Also, if someone calls information and asks for your listing, the operator will say, "that listing is non-published." That admission in itself gives a wealth of information you may not want to be "out there." (Yes, you still are in the area... yes you are trying to hide... the knowshe still has you scared.) ...


0 Comments, 84 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
womaninthemoon 73 F
5  Articles
You think you connect...then what...is he/she real?   6/19/2006

This is really a dilemna in today's world. So many people try to pass as someone they aren't for various reasons. Some are in bad marriages and want a fling. Some have agendas more attached to financial issues. It doesn't matter what the ultimate reason...what matters is our own security. Obviously all of us know that not posting a picture is a flag. There are good reasons for no ...


1 Comments, 78 Views, 31 Votes ,7.36 Score
mwm_with_kids 73 M
4  Articles
Fostering Obsession with online courtship   6/19/2006

There are arguements presented that it is "safe" to spend the time to get to know the other person with extensive email, chats and phone conversations first. I'm not sold this is correct, or safe. <br> There are equal arguements that a very early meeting the other person "safely" in a very public place, so that you can not be followed back to your home or work, may avoid ...


0 Comments, 142 Views, 31 Votes ,7.65 Score
bklynblueeyes19 74 F
31  Articles
Why are there so few unattached men on SFF?   6/19/2006

After reading through dozens of matches of Cupid's SFF, I have thought that my request not to be paired with MARRIED MEN is being ignored. Perhaps there are not enough single men on the site to give the volume necessary to maintain the interest of the women. My theory is "better quality over quantity" Please refine the Cupid's software to match with the single preferences together. ...


1 Comments, 58 Views, 119 Votes ,6.38 Score
birdreader 76 M
1  Article
personal security.   6/19/2006

if done carefully, an internet search for a companion can be quite safe, enjoyable and a very wonderful experience in your life. <br> there are some simple little things to avoid if you wish to keep personal information secure until you decide the other person is worth seeing/communicating with. first:NEVER reveal more than your first name. if you reveal a city ...


0 Comments, 67 Views, 69 Votes ,5.21 Score
Goodsoul51 72 M
20  Articles
Safety tips women should know & practice   6/19/2006

Don't Be A Crime Victim! I am sending this to every woman I know, ,please read it and pass it on to all your female friends, , <br> <br> <br> Some time ago, I attended a personal safety workshop, and it jolted me. It was given by an amazing man, Pat Malone, who has been a body guard for famous figures like Farrah Fawcett and Sylvester Stallone. He works for ...


0 Comments, 146 Views, 26 Votes ,6.58 Score
gentlewar 75 M
22  Articles
STALKERS, The complete article?   6/19/2006

STALKERS When you have an "unlisted" number, you pay repeated charge. Also, if someone calls information and asks for your listing, the operator will say, "that listing is non-published." That admission in itself gives a wealth of information you may not want to be "out there." (Yes, you still are in the area... yes you are trying to hide... the knowshe still has you scared.) I found ...


0 Comments, 149 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
Adventrimax 73 M
18  Articles
Thinning The Herd?   6/19/2006

I was giving this 'dating safety' thing some thought last evening. A question kept nagging me like an ex who didn't find what she wanted with the lawn care guy. <br> <br> Has humanity been dumbed down so much it cannot exercise the rudiments of common sense in enjoying some of the inherent risks and mysteries of romance? <br> <br> I really don't have a ...


0 Comments, 204 Views, 23 Votes ,4.65 Score
LadyM 73 F
6  Articles
Be sensible and you will be safe.   6/19/2006

There is a lot of unnecessary concern over safety on the net as if its that much different to real life. We take precautions in reality and we need to take precautions on the net. If you don't put your details on the net for anyone to find, you will be able to surf the net without feeling exposed. There are rules for being safe in real life and they apply just the same here...you should ...


0 Comments, 50 Views, 61 Votes ,5.36 Score
JoyHopeLove 70 F
2  Articles
It CAN happen to YOU!!   6/18/2006

It does not matter if you are female or male....nor does it matter where you are located....you really can be the victim....I was. Granted it was a matter of trusting too soon......even if you think you really know the person quite well...the rules they have posted on here ARE good ones indeed and following them might mean saving your life. It can happen to a man just as easily as to a ...


2 Comments, 411 Views, 43 Votes ,7.62 Score
thebat2O 69 F
1  Article
Ref HappyTrail35   6/18/2006

I understand what you are saying about safety and should you take a cab and keep your car hidden. It seems to me like you are really paranoid (only my opinion) about meeting someone for the first time. In these times maybe that's not a bad thing but I really do think you are carrying this a little too far. <br> For the most part the man/woman you meet will be just as cautious ...


0 Comments, 50 Views, 25 Votes ,4.02 Score
MatureLadyWanted 51 M
9  Articles
STD's   6/15/2006

Hello, I use condoms on every sexual occasion but not sure how to protect myself when performing oral on a lady. Any thoughts or ways that are easy to implement?


5 Comments, 458 Views, 23 Votes ,2.19 Score