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Wine or coffee 6/13/2011
Most guys go for the coffee shop first date as it is easy to
slip away.
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0 Votes
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Exposing the Dating Scam Scum 2/18/2010
So you got an email from a seemingly great guy. He's
really cute, seems like he might be a good match and he's
dying to know all about you. What an ego boost! Or is it?
In the last two weeks I have been contacted by no less than
six dating scammers. That's right, there are scammers
everywhere and we all need to be on the lookout for these
despicable creeps. SFF is not immune to the ...
2 Comments, 57 Views,
3 Votes
,4.90 Score
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Stood Up 1/22/2010
It used to be very upsetting when I was stood up for a date
but now it doesn't upset me at all. I have a great time
on my date regardless of rather the date shows up or not.
I can go to the theater by myself, I can geocach all by myself
and I can go to dinner by myself. Who know, I might meet somebody
terrific and it's saves me the trouble of having to
ditch my date to take off with ...
6 Comments, 210 Views,
44 Votes
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Dealing with On-Line Bullies 4/28/2009
On-Line Bullies is an occupational hazard of the cyberworld.
There are some who can bully behind an anonymous profile.
When dealing with an on-line bully, it is important to NOT to respond, interact and engage with the
bully. This is not easy but it is doable.
The bully will attack with name-calling
and slander. The first ...
4 Comments, 245 Views,
42 Votes
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Meeting people - one on one - personally 11/15/2008
I have been a member of SFF for quite some time and have met
many people in person all over the world: males as well as
well as females. I have attended 3 bashes in the US (I am from
Europe) and going to such a gathering in order to meet people
in my opinion is safe.
It would be different when meeting a single person, woman
meeting gentlemen. I have always trusted my intuition
and up to ...
6 Comments, 546 Views,
67 Votes
,7.29 Score
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safe sex for older couples? 9/7/2008
We are a mature couple who have only recently begun exploring
re-entry into the lifestyle after many years out of it.
Kinda looking to spice up our golden years, you might say.
STDs are equal opportunity problems, no matter what the
age although a lot of geezers seem to feel that at their age
-- "what the hell?" Condoms are a turnoff to
a lot of people in the lifestyle and admitedly, ...
3 Comments, 218 Views,
13 Votes
,5.49 Score
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How Much Is Too Much? 8/12/2008
I received an e-mail from a total stranger telling me
that I had given TOO MUCH informtation in my profile and
that didn't I know that Perverts would be attracted
to it??
Well, now what do you do about this question? One of the first
things I do, if I see an attractive man, is read his profile
to see how "honest" he is and what makes him tick.
I believe in ...
5 Comments, 218 Views,
24 Votes
,5.17 Score
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why lie 5/16/2008
If you are writing a Profile why Lie about yourself and give
false information...You either have to be a very good lier
and remember what you have said or you are just plain stupid
because eventually you are found out......A lot of men
lie about their ages as do women I guess what for to catch
some one......mmmm very interesting
6 Comments, 161 Views,
13 Votes
,5.83 Score
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Instinct 2/23/2007
When you meet somone for the first time, rather its online
or for coffee, use your own judgement, about this person.
Ask questions, make a joke out of everything you can think
of, and watch their response.If they laugh, and find it
funny(even though it might not be)
ask them to describe their personality, and what things
make them happy. If they go along with you with jokes, and
they ...
2 Comments, 79 Views,
12 Votes
,5.27 Score
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Those Red Flags! 2/18/2007
I recently ended a cyber relationship, not from SSF, because
the man in question wanted to come to town to visit me much
too soon, after only one phone call, and assumed he would
be invited to my home. He made sexual innuendoes which went
beyond flirtatious, wanted to know if I would ever want
to go out with friends instead of being with my partner,
and almost seemed to be planning our ...
3 Comments, 317 Views,
30 Votes
,3.93 Score
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scammers 2/3/2007
you know its a shame when the sharks of the internet try to
take advantage of those who for one reason or other are taken
in by a smooth talking scam artist. I for one am sick and tired
of them trying their tricks on me just because they see I
am self employed and have a few extra pounds on me. I hae a
friend who is in pretty much the same predictament and knows
of others as well that have ...
5 Comments, 103 Views,
14 Votes
,5.86 Score
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when is it right #2 1/6/2007
Some people want you to meet them immediately after you
are first connected to them on here.
Some people do meet and become intimate immediately with
one another. Then talk about the future later. Which approach
would you take?
2 Comments, 79 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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Fooling wo? 1/5/2007
When we are asked to post a p[icture-wouldn't that
mean a picture of us NOW- not taken 20 years ago. We all usually
fill out a little, or our features tend to change over the
years--so does our looks-generally- which means that
when we are 20 we look young, at 45 we might of put on a few pounds,
grew a facial hair, cut our hair shorter, what have you.
Then when we become OLDER like say ...
4 Comments, 92 Views,
10 Votes
,4.58 Score
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Screening out the Frogs 12/27/2006
I do believe that internet dating is the way of the future.
The Internet has allowed me to keep in contact with friends
across the country that I could have lost cantact with years
ago. I have made many wonderful friends. When my was
in the Persian Gulf, I was able to contact him. When a
or loved one is at the warfront, any kind of message however
brief is comforting. I have had ...
2 Comments, 165 Views,
44 Votes
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Biker !!! 12/26/2006
What do you think a real Biker is ?
Give your tought...
Rock
1 Comments, 61 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Dating/General safety 12/24/2006
Dating/general safety
<br>
Men take notice too. A woman can shoot you as readily as a
man. Also there are more than a few women who can whip you
without a weapon. Don’t try to be “Macho”.
<br>
Don't be afraid to say NO! If you're not comfortable
with the way things are headed, run like hell.
<br>
When you are comfortable enough to meet for ...
3 Comments, 87 Views,
9 Votes
,5.56 Score
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Everything you need to know about Air Brakes and Truckers 12/24/2006
What are the three braking systems?
The service brake and parking brake and emergency system.
<br>
What is used to make the brakes work?
Compressed air.
<br>
What does the air compressor do?
Pumps air into the air storage tanks.
<br>
<br>
What does the air compressor governor control?
It controls how the compressor will pump air into the air ...
2 Comments, 122 Views,
43 Votes
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seven days of Inspiration 12/24/2006
Day one---find something that gives you joy, and it will
make you beatiful.
Day two---lrt your heart decide, it knows you best.
Day three-you will touch somein a positve way soon
Day four--Hope is stronger than Fear
Day five--remember this always--you are a rare jewel that
should be treated with dignity.
Daysix----give yourself a pat on your back, and reach for
your dreams
Day ...
5 Comments, 80 Views,
10 Votes
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Practicing Safe Internet Behavior 12/24/2006
This is a modified exerpt from a recent reply I sent to another
member here and feel it necessary to post it here for all
to read for thier personal safety. (nickname of who it is
addressed to has been removed obiviously for safety issues).
{I really appreciate your boldness in showing your contact
number, but I respect you for the woman that you are and wish
to know you better thru ...
3 Comments, 199 Views,
27 Votes
,5.45 Score
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Any way to verify? 12/23/2006
Is there a way to verify someone you are talking to on SFF
and through email is the person they say they are? It worries
me. In this day of stolen identity it's very hard to
be assured. Doing a background check is over the top so does
anyone have a way they verify a person's true identity?Men are from Mar's and Women are from Venus...
2 Comments, 56 Views,
8 Votes
,3.94 Score
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Do a back ground check..... 12/23/2006
I found out being in SFF for three years, if
a person man/women is the true blue person they say they
are will not get upset with you if you do a back ground check
on them. I talked to this man from SFF for three years and
he began to concern me. I did a search on him and back ground
check on him and he never has spoken to me again since I told
him. I ask him if he lived on such and ...
3 Comments, 138 Views,
17 Votes
,6.10 Score
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Where to meet 12/6/2006
Meet for the first time in public place. Nowhere noisy but
safe.
2 Comments, 65 Views,
9 Votes
,3.21 Score
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be safe 8/28/2006
It is important when meeting someone 4 the first time that
you dont give out tooo much personal information be safe
instead of sorry.
It is also A good idea too not go to your dates home on the first
date.Most important tip be yourself be honest and sincere.
1 Comments, 190 Views,
17 Votes
,4.54 Score
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Dating Safely On Line For Ladies 7/1/2006
Ladies, I know how excited we all get when we see someone
on line and want so badly to get to know all about them.
<br>
I have friends who tell me how scary it is for them to do the
on-line dating thing. It isn't any more scary than
meeting someone in a bar, or through a friend, etc. The question
I get often is "What do you talk about, how do you get
to know them, where do you ...
2 Comments, 654 Views,
59 Votes
,6.24 Score
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How far has life changed? 7/1/2006
I feel we are in a world that has changed in a wrong way. It
seems years ago dating safety would have only meant being
careful if you became active that no were brought into
the world. I never had to worry of it as I was not going there
anyway.
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Now we talk of sickos and people who wish to harm or take anothers
life...We many times think of our .. OK grandchildren
I ...
3 Comments, 169 Views,
16 Votes
,4.89 Score
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There's some funny people out there 7/1/2006
When I was a I used to go camping quite a lot. My mother
always used to say, 'now you be careful. You know what
I mean? There's some funny people out there.'
Well I never met any 'funny people out there'.
But there again, perhaps they thought I was 'funny'.
Everyone is someone else's weirdo.
Nowadays you can, shop, bank and get credit online. But
if anything is wrong you can always ...
3 Comments, 432 Views,
40 Votes
,5.15 Score
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*** Stay Safe ALWAYS *** 7/1/2006
This is mostly for ladies always stay safe under any cicumstances..always
meet in a public place, drive yourself or get someone to
drive you.... always tell someone were you are going, always
have a cell phone even if you have to borrow one, with an emergency
number of someone you can contact. using 3 capital AAA in
your cell phone that way always comes up first so you dont
panic trying to ...
9 Comments, 204 Views,
31 Votes
,6.79 Score
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No Means No 7/1/2006
A guy who briefly chats with a girl in a chat room seems "normal"
if there's such a word, so the gal takes the chance and
gives him her personal instant messenger sn and now every
time she logs on he wants to chat nonstop. She loves to chat,
but the topic of sex is contantly on this guy's mind,
and she has repeatedly responded, "NO Thanks"
many times, but he just doesn't get it, I guess her ...
4 Comments, 201 Views,
20 Votes
,4.91 Score
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too much too soon 7/1/2006
I like to put my cards on the table right from the start. I
believe if you both do that, each will know what you are looking
for, and you can go from there.ask each other questions
what you want to know about the other. If the other don't
feel comfortable about doing that, its more than likely
a good idea to stop right there, and look for someone else
to talk to. things to discuss are what ...
6 Comments, 137 Views,
15 Votes
,6.19 Score
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communication 7/1/2006
When first meeting someone new, I strongly feel that one
will know what type of a person you have just met, if they
communicate well with you right from the start. One might
not know, or care if the other doesn't communicate
well. Thats up to each individual, but to communicate right
off the bat, is essential. Lots of items are involved in
a good and strong relationship. To find a new ...
10 Comments, 149 Views,
13 Votes
,6.33 Score
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