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he_who_smiles 59 M
11  Articles
to the wives 2   2/7/2007

driven to maudlin sympathy, to bitter resentment. Some of us veered from extreme to extreme, ever hoping that one day our loved ones would be themselves once more.
Our loyalty and the desire that our husbands hold up their heads and be like other men have begotten all sorts of predicaments. We have been unselfish and self-sacrificing. We have told innumerable lies to protect ...


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he_who_smiles 59 M
11  Articles
to the wives 1   2/7/2007

With few exceptions, our book thus far has spoken of men. But what we have said applies quite as much to women. Our activities in behalf of women who drink are on the increase. There is every evidence that women regain their health as readily as men if they try our suggestions.
But for every man who drinks others are involved–the wife who trembles in fear of the next ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
he_who_smiles 59 M
11  Articles
into action 2   2/7/2007

invariably they got drunk. Having persevered with the rest of the program, they wondered why they fell. We think the reason is that they never completed their housecleaning. They took inventory all right, but hung on to some of the worst items in stock. They only thought they had lost their egoism and fear; they only thought they had humbled themselves. But they had not learned enough ...


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he_who_smiles 59 M
11  Articles
into action   2/7/2007

AVING MADE our personal inventory, what shall we do about it? We have been trying to get a new attitude, a new relationship with our Creator, and to discover the obstacles in our path. We have admitted certain defects; we have ascertained in a rough way what the trouble is; we have put our finger on the weak times in our personal inventory. Now these are about to be cast out. This ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
he_who_smiles 59 M
11  Articles
Bill   1/30/2007

WAR FEVER ran high in the New England town to which we new, young officers from Plattsburg were assigned, and we were flattered when the first citizens took us to their homes, making us feel heroic. Here was love, applause, war; moments sublime with intervals hilarious. I was part of life at last, and in the midst of the excitement I discovered liquor. I forgot the strong warnings and ...


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he_who_smiles 59 M
11  Articles
Emotional sobriety   1/30/2007

Emotional sobriety is when: 1. I am free of resentments, jealousy, and envy--and free to forgive quickly. 2. My emotions are not so violent that they cause me to go or be on a dry drunk. 3. I am able to make normal everyday decisions without my vision being unduly influenced by my emotions. 4. I am able to identify & live by my personal values without compromise ...


1 Comments, 9 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
he_who_smiles 59 M
11  Articles
Evenong Prayer   1/30/2007

Dear God,
Thank you for another day sober. Please show me where today I subtly tried to control and judge people.
Where was I outspoken, self righteous, self important? Did I offer advice not asked for in friendship or fellowship? Did I talk more than I listened? Was I selfish, dishonest, angry or fearful? Do I owe an apology? Was I kind and loving to all? ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
he_who_smiles 59 M
11  Articles
Morning Prayer   1/30/2007

Good morning God,
Please direct my thinking today and remind me to pause when agitated or doubtful. To practice patience, tolerance and love. To say many many times Thy will not mine be done. We both know God that I control and judge and I can’t stop it so I will leave me to you to change and I will get out of your way by spending my day thinking of ...


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he_who_smiles 59 M
11  Articles
WHOSE HANDS IS IT IN?   1/30/2007

WHOSE HANDS IS IT IN?


A basketball in my hands is worth about $19. A basketball in Michael Jordan's hands is worth about $33 million. It depends on whose hands it's in...
A baseball in my hands is worth about $6. A baseball in Mark McGuire's hands is worth 19 million. It depends on whose hands it's in...
A golf club is useless ...


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notgoingyet2 74 M
4  Articles
TERRORISTS   1/28/2007

TERRORISTS WORLD WIDE, WE STAND UP FOR OUR TRUE AUSTRALIAN PRIDE.
GO BACK TO WHERE YOU BELONG, AND WHILE YOU ARE AT IT TAKE YA MONGREL FRIENDS ALONG.
OUR LAND IS BIG AND ALSO VERY SPARSE, AND ALL YOU MONGREL TERRORISTS CAN KISS MY AUSSIE ARSE,
WE EXTENDED A HAND OF FRIENDSHIP AND FOR THAT I AM TRULY PROUD, BUT YOU HAVE ABUSED THIS FRIENDSHIP ...


1 Comments, 33 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
Josie2007 75 F
2  Articles
Better this time around!!   1/26/2007

Hi there, I was a member here for quite a while during 2006. I met what I thought was a nice Gentleman, however October 2006 he just stopped responding to my notes here, and my Emails, He played mind Games and I was not impressed. I see he is still a member to. I found myself telling all about me, however he told very little of himself.
I sure hope that the same thing does not ...


6 Comments, 94 Views, 10 Votes ,4.58 Score
coby77 74 F
16  Articles
WHAT ARE THE RATINGS   1/12/2007

This site has been around for along time apparentely. So I have been told, so why are some memmbers so nasty and rude to some of these members. we are, at least, most of us are on here for fun--and IF we should find a true love--that will be a BONUS- I am not looking for anyone I just like writing and interested in meeting and talking to others..People in general are usually pretty nice and ...


5 Comments, 71 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
coby77 74 F
16  Articles
Where have all the good Dr.'s gone   1/5/2007

Today we sure have a shortage of good Dr. Does anyone really wonder why we can't find a Dr. like our parents had some years ago. I remember mine telling all of us that we never had a Dr. in town because we lived so far away from town that they always came to our place...so why would it be so different nowadays--you can't find one that will come to your place anymore, can you? Then when we ...


5 Comments, 35 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
flowerandmuse 69 F
110  Articles
ability   12/15/2006

Depends on own ability, completes the work, nothing has beenmore important than this Is opportunistic, only can prove you have a litter ability, a this ability possibly will cause you biggerloss


1 Comments, 15 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
LadyRedMane 68 F
20  Articles
Police Work   11/19/2006

Two police officers respond to a crime scene behind a grocery store. The homicide detective is already there.
"What happened?" asks the first officer.
"Male, about twenty-five, covered in Raisin Bran and dead as a doornail."
"Good grief, " says the second officer. "Didn't we have one covered in Frosted Flakes yesterday? And ...



2 Comments, 98 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
Honeybunz2 76 F
2  Articles
What is this Crap?   11/15/2006

What's going on when someone emails you and tells you to "get out" of SFF because this isn't a cooking site?
I had several friends request a recipe and I posted it on a blog .....ergo, the email.
Is this the concensus of everyone? I don't hardly think so.....this is one rude, mean spirited individual who thought he just might have an opportunity to browbeat a ...


9 Comments, 152 Views, 21 Votes ,5.23 Score
CatSansNom 68 F
1  Article
Assumptions   11/11/2006

In the chatroom tonight someone commented (and I am paraphrasing) that when she saw that someone was "married" and "looking for a girlfriend who could be discreet", she knew the person wasn't being honest.
This made me think about how our experiences and beliefs can color our assumptions.
I believe the woman who who made the comment is monogamous and I understand why ...


10 Comments, 147 Views, 14 Votes ,2.18 Score
hazycrippy 84 F
1  Article
Encouraging grief as part of life.   10/19/2006

After the recent death by suicide of my 36 year old much loved step-, I offer this as part of my journey.

My grieving is of joy, pain....
I go in
as I allow all.
I relinquish clutching
for one moment....
.....and one moment....
nothing different,
everything different,
oldandnewareone ...


4 Comments, 59 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
thompsie692 96 M
1  Article
Am I that stupid??   10/19/2006

I cannot believe the different variations of how these Chat sites are set up by Programmers!
By the time I figure out how to find some Ladies that appear to match my profile, and ask that lady to join my Network, and have SFF show the acceptance on my HOTLIST, I can't find any "EASY" button to push to begin the exploratory process!! How does one make the actual cyber contact?? Do ...


1 Comments, 52 Views, 7 Votes ,1.51 Score
iamme10 76 F
1  Article
Small World quite freaky!!!!!   10/4/2006

Hello. Well did i get a surprise yesterday. My is on here, and yeterday she got a reply from a person who came across as a reasonably guy. Well she studied the photo and said to her self, i know this guy!! I have seen him before. Oh my g...... suddenly it dawned on her. He lives around 5 houses away from her, is married, and has a very very sick wife. his profile was indicating in every ...


2 Comments, 106 Views, 12 Votes ,5.10 Score
satanboy56 60 C
3  Articles
Hard thing to do   9/28/2006

For one thing I'm back, after along leave from the site. I had some thing come in my life that keep me away for awhile. Beside side becoming a grandfaher two more times. this past summer my younest got himself in trouble with the law. So he moved back home hoping I would help him out which I tried to do. The courts gave him a fair shake which I though he would beable to handle without ...


0 Comments, 29 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
coby77 74 F
16  Articles
One in a million   9/21/2006

I really find the articles quite interesting on these site's. They can be very useful for each one of us, as there is always so many different topics. The topics I find the most interesting are as such; online dating;;; Would you really meet this person that you find you have chemisty for, butterflies in the tummy, don't think that you can go on with your life, without them, would you ...


1 Comments, 48 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
coby77 74 F
16  Articles
A good word not even in Dictionary   9/20/2006

To me the WEBCAM has been used for everything Whats in the dictionary...everything except the one thing that would benefit so many people but the name has been out in the public's vocabulary for so long now where any person with any kind of common sense today wouldn't even consider. Webcam's can ands are KNOWN for alot more than just for cybersex. Although, the marjority of people don't ...


1 Comments, 35 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
tranquilllaaa 72 F
2  Articles
Sunday Night Gazebo Trivia..   9/16/2006

Sunday Night Gazebo Trivia...
Sunday Night Gazebo Trivia... Come Play ..Everyone Welcome
HOSTESS ..TRANQUILLAAA SCORE KEEPER..LONELYLOOPER TEAMS ..WOMEN VERSUS MEN WHERE...GAZEBO
My TIME....11 PM eastern=10 central=9 mountain=8 pacific=7 alaska =6
we also have the DAILY ...


1 Comments, 26 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
gardenlover2 75 F
7  Articles
I'm beginning to wonder. LOL   9/15/2006

Well I'm really beginning to wonder what is wrong with me!!
Come on guys, wouldn't you like a very sincere lovely penpal. you never know!! one day we could even meet. so nice to have a penpal from another country, learning about each others culture ect.
I'm looking forward to hearing from more of you here. After all isn't this is why we are all here, to meet folk? ...


2 Comments, 61 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
xxxxxman4 63 M
2  Articles
questionable email   9/13/2006

Do you ever get emails that appears to be sent out like junk mail. Not really addressed to you and not have any of your own personal info in the text?


1 Comments, 45 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
xxxxxman4 63 M
2  Articles
Profile   9/8/2006

If you are a standard member, why don't you leave your profile open for others to view? Isn't that the point of going on line to start?


3 Comments, 50 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
NiceWords 59 F
8  Articles
My little bird   9/4/2006

My little bird watches over me As I sleep at night. He wakes me with his singing With the coming of morning light.
He perches on a tree limb That is right outside my room. His lilting song helps cheer me And chases away my gloom.
During the day he flits around Flying from tree to tree. Always singing his little song I know he's watching over me.
...


2 Comments, 36 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
NiceWords 59 F
8  Articles
Help   9/4/2006

There are times when life is like the listing of a ship As if the sun has drawn a shade enclosed us in a crypt A strong faith is important to function every day When we help each other, it lightens our weary way Searching for special friendship as we often do Can raise that shade higher and let the sun shine through So when you feel despondent, sorrowful and sad Help received from ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
tranquilllaaa 72 F
2  Articles
Trivia Night In Chatroom   9/2/2006

HI EVERYBODY , We are going to have an hour of trivia in Gazebo Sunday night , everybody welcome see my blog for details . come enjoy the Gazebo while the weather is nice and have fun too .
Hope you can make it .


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