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Being Careful With Whom You Trust Yor Heart 2/22/2006
Not all the times are bad in a relationship till you start
finding out the other does not care and just wants to be friends
and really dont want that. You have given you heart and soul
to this person and you get played for a fool, some cultures
are to have respect, honor and lose face for these things
but it does not always apply to them, guess they are the exceptions.I
dont see how a ...
0 Comments, 150 Views,
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Friendship is needed...... 2/17/2006
Friendship! sweeter of life. and soldier of society.Like
it or not, friends are becoming more and more important
to the average person. Friendship is good for our soul.
As we get older, we need good friends to keep us young. A good
friendship can help us to be healthy, and avoid the possibility
of getting depressed, and desperate for better living.
It has been proven, also, that breast ...
2 Comments, 63 Views,
2 Votes
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Plus of distance relationship 2/17/2006
When people have e-mail correspondence or talk on-line,
they have possibility know about inside of soul, about
what in mind of person they decide meet with, may be this
is big "plus" of distance relationship...
when two people onward be aware of interest, thought, internal
world of that person, with which they are met subsequently...
1 Comments, 114 Views,
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STRAWS FROM MY BALE: Sunshineokie 2/13/2006
Sorry Kiddos, here I am, on my journey, in my Third Age...and
everytime I think I've gotten soemthing all figured
out...I get a newer, upgraded perspective. Building a
relationship with a platonic friend seems to require about
the same-ole-same-ole, ya know. Just, be good to each other,
mind your manners, be polite, return what you borrow.
But let me tell YOU! This romancing stuff takes ...
0 Comments, 61 Views,
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Our own self 2/11/2006
To be involved with your inner sense is good for many and
terrible for others. One reason for this is, alot of people
don't know what they want. We tend to say, this, but
we mean that. We will do that, but really want to do this.
We go to places that we aren't interested in, just to
please someone else. We wander in various directions most
of our lives, and don't usually get anywhere. ...
2 Comments, 82 Views,
3 Votes
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Meeting With Someone from SFF 2/11/2006
Hi, this is my first magazine article, so everyone bear
with me if it isn't something you want to read.
I met my hubby here on this site, so I have nothing bad to say
about SFf (except for the normal complaints about it not
working right, posts not being posted, and so forth).
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The thing that folks need to remember is that this site is
a microcosm of the world, ...
4 Comments, 277 Views,
29 Votes
,6.25 Score |
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The question 2/4/2006
Why every time I try to find a friend
the paper with the request of MONEY stares on me from the
monitor ??
2 Comments, 123 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score |
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Destiny 2/1/2006
Never find ur destiny, let destiny find u.Its Ok to cry as
hard and as long you want to just make sure, that when u stop
crying.You won't cry for the same reason anymore.Life
is a journey keep on going until you reach your destiny.
1 Comments, 84 Views,
5 Votes
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A new begining......... 1/29/2006
When we meet someone and they become that speacial someone,
always keep the romance fresh, keep in contact every day
that is so important to hear a loved ones voice, it brings
a smile, all ways do little things I send cheeky little texts
i also put little message were I know he can find them sometime
that day, tell him /her what you think or feel, by phone or
text if and when you can, when ...
8 Comments, 680 Views,
52 Votes
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My Sweetheart! 1/23/2006
I.am very new to this so please bare with me.I don't
even know where to start but, I have always been told that
it's best to start at the beggining so I will.It has
been my pleasure to have met alot of people through the chatrooms
of SFF.I was truely a very lucky man when I met Jes4now.She
is a very loving and understanding and patient woman.I
have never met anyone quite like her.I truely ...
1 Comments, 143 Views,
8 Votes
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Just Keep your Heart Open 1/17/2006
I approach every new "meeting" or first date
with an open heart and an open mind. That's not always
easy, because that first meeting usually follows e-mails
and phone calls and YES definately, a well formed opinion.
Those of us who have dating experience tucked well under
our belts carefully steer away from "jaded",
"sterio typical" thoughts and step up to enjoying
the experience of a new ...
1 Comments, 324 Views,
24 Votes
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old fashioned relationship 1/12/2006
This article is to all the male members, remember when your
mother told you how she came to meet your father...First,
she had trouble passing the idea to her father about even
dating, then she had to be chaperoned by a big brother, next,
she had to be home early, then she had to abide by all these
strict rules from her father. Not to mention when she fell
in love with your father and was ...
0 Comments, 115 Views,
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ALLOW yourself to play 1/3/2006
ALLOW your Inner feelings out to Play
It takes talent to play the mind but I never play games with
the heart. I am too wise.
I was born, ‘responsible’, and my ‘undoing’ of the systems
oppressive mind set was to fight with ‘Delight’. Delight
is “losing the mind, finding the body, and regaining the
MIND anew.'
Being ...
0 Comments, 80 Views,
7 Votes
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cultivating a beautiful romance 12/4/2005
Romance doesn't have to end.Love keeps getting better.Passion
will be tamed somewhat
The spark that turns into a flame, can also consume common
sense.
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There is only one person in world that can make me happy ,
and that person is me. I need to be happy, to be in love with
life, and to continue to evolve spiritually.
I have been in love and understand about minimizing ...
1 Comments, 81 Views,
7 Votes
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Second-class citizens 11/10/2005
When a single, available woman settles for a married man
who is looking for a "discrete affair", she
is accepting the status of a second-class citizen. This
man is so ashamed of his behavior and you that he wouldn't
want his friends nor the woman to whom he has pledged lifelong
fidelity to discover his secret life. Don't you deserve
the best? Don't you love yourself enough to wait until ...
2 Comments, 232 Views,
24 Votes
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How To Charm A Gemini Into Matrimony 11/7/2005
Come on Baby, lets go to Vegas, Pack your bags, we are leaving
in two hours, Gemini will be ready. Geminis like quick on
the spur decisions and immediate action. Action is the
magic word. If a Gemini wants it, he wants it now. The moment
is critical and you must go
with it. Otherwise- it will never come back.
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The Gemini likes instant coffee, instant breakfast and
...
4 Comments, 154 Views,
15 Votes
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Get to know one another first 11/2/2005
Having reach a time period in my life where I don't want
to repeat the history I have left behind, a new and different
opportunity entered into my life. A man from SFF had asked
if we could meet, to get to know one another.
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This man wanted to know the real me, what I was really all
about, and what kind of a person I'm. In return I would
find out the real him, the real ...
1 Comments, 137 Views,
31 Votes
,7.17 Score |
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Age 10/23/2005
I have been on a few dating sites but i find this one is by far
the best, i have made some good friends from here , but
tell me does age really matter, i dont think so ..but it
does seem like some ladies think so.
5 Comments, 181 Views,
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HURRY UP - SLOW DOWN 10/11/2005
When starting a relationship do we rush and get to the first
date , or take one day at a time?
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Personally I would prefare to take it slow get to know each
other a bit on the net then chatting via phone to see if you
laugh at the same things... can you both chat with ease,
do you have simular likes or dislikes ? if you chat with a
person long enough, and they are not gen... ...
3 Comments, 123 Views,
11 Votes
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Age is an issue 10/9/2005
Age is an issue if you prefer someone younger/older. Otherwise,
you wouldn't even care to ask how old they are. So, my
ultimate question is: Where are the older (but no too old)
men who like younger girls?
0 Comments, 74 Views,
20 Votes
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Are You Really Ready for A Relationship? 9/22/2005
Hello Everyone. I wanted to say that most of us are on this
website hopefully for the same reason, to find a permanent,
satisfying relationship aren't we? I have heard that
some people are in it only for the sex and that's not
what I'm about. Unfortunately, it ruins it for some
of us who don't feel that way. I've actually heard
this from women, as well as the men. Most of us have already ...
3 Comments, 409 Views,
31 Votes
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A wonderful Message by George Carlin 8/25/2005
Like to share a wonderful Message by George Carlin, hope
you enjoy it:
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The paradox of our time in history is that
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we have taller buildings but shorter tempers,
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wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints.
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We spend more, but have less,
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we buy more, but enjoy less.
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We ...
5 Comments, 491 Views,
60 Votes
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No Matter the Age, What's important 8/20/2005
We hear every day how so many singles are looking for mr or
miss right. We read profiles stating that one is honest,
believes communication is the key, and wants that special
somebody. Yet, no one seems to be connecting. What is important
in a relationship?
<br>
It is the humble opinion of this 49 year old woman that the
most important things in a relationship are: 1) honesty ...
0 Comments, 55 Views,
72 Votes
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Opening yourself to a relationship 8/20/2005
Opening yourself to a relationship so fully that you actually
lose your mind is a dangerous, scary and exhilarating thing.
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It can be wonderful. But passion isn't enough.
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There comes a time when that bright passion that carried
you along fades a little. Sometimes, it just vanishes.
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Where are you then?
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If all that your ...
1 Comments, 164 Views,
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Try building a relationship on honesty... 8/17/2005
....and if honesty is not in your face, then be honest about
the fact that you are lying.
Many people are happy with a relationship with someone
who is already attached because they do not want to be co-erced
into a permanency. This is fine if each person knows what
is happening.
It seems absurd that at the age of prime we are suddenly bitching
about 'married people cheating...'
Yes, I ...
0 Comments, 53 Views,
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Commitment 8/12/2005
What is commitment to you? To me it's: Promise, truth,
word of honor, trust, assurance, understanding, agreement
and pact.
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Care to add anything else ladies and gents?
<br>
Lydia
0 Comments, 82 Views,
11 Votes
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ALONE AGAINST DESTINY 8/10/2005
I FELL SO BAD THAT IT´S DIFFICULT FOR ME TO WRITE, I FEEL
THAT I WANT TO SCREAM, AND I CAN´T , BUT IT´S SO MUCH MY NEEDNES
THAT I´M CRYING NOW .I´M SORRY IF I TELL YOU IT.MY
IS SICK SINCE LAST DECEMBER I´M VERY SAD BECAUSE SHE CAN´T
WORK BY THE MOMENT.I´M DIVORCED AND I HAVE A LITTLE ALIMONY
PENSION, I´M DEPRESSED BECAUSE AT THE SAME TIME, I HAVE
RECIVED BAD NEWS , MY EX LAWYER ...
3 Comments, 277 Views,
15 Votes
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Love is blind 8/7/2005
When, after years of having what you think is loving, caring,
relationship. It suddenly dawns on you that it is all one
sided. That all you have done is given and got nothing back
in return. Then love really is blind.
0 Comments, 131 Views,
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Open communication 6/1/2005
Hello, how much should I tell my sexual partners about my
fantasies? I don't want to scare them away but I also
want to explore the full realms of sex.
1 Comments, 131 Views,
5 Votes
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How to get the right relationship 6/1/2005
Love is not matter on how to get the right person, but to get
the right relationship. the important question is are
you capable to build a relationship that you wanted?
1 Comments, 78 Views,
11 Votes
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