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What happened? 7/5/2005
After six dates, he just stops talking to me; no answering
calls, emails. Not a word to explain what happened. We live
in a society where, unfortunately, some people believe
they can just trample on someone else's emotions and
it is reflected on tv, news, etc. Respect begins with acknowledging
that one cannot have relationships with others unless
respect is shown. Thank you for the ...
3 Comments, 307 Views,
20 Votes
,4.91 Score
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not easy 7/4/2005
Just be honest!
0 Comments, 106 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Modern living 6/4/2005
1) The man is at fault. He seems to think that there is something
to prove. Usually of course his virility. So off he goes
beating his chest and looking for the first Jane in the jungle.
2) The woman is at fault. She's had enough. The
have all grown up and the man looks like a pair of old shoes
that need chucking out. A younger man is what she wants.
An article I read recently said that ...
1 Comments, 148 Views,
13 Votes
,1.97 Score
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You must have some standards 5/30/2005
I hardly noticed really when it started to happen. On reflection
it could have happened 20 yrs ago. A king size bed and me all
alone on 'my side'.
Or was it only 10 yrs ago when I was only coming home at the
w/ends? Or was it when we stopped bathing together?
left home and we found that we had nothing to talk about?
When i was away I would ring three times a day. Morning, lunch
time and ...
1 Comments, 166 Views,
16 Votes
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How many stages do we go through? 5/27/2005
After the divorce is over, how long and how many stages do
we go through? What are they, and when do we know we are through
all? I have been a year now and feel reasonably well satisfied
I have worked through all, but maybe others know more than
I about much of this. I heard one man refer to taking half
the years you were together to get over marriage.. is that
so? if so I was 20 year, ...
8 Comments, 291 Views,
14 Votes
,2.98 Score
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There is Life After A BreakUp! 5/2/2005
You've been dating 9 months now and things are looking
a little rough. You don't hear from him (or her) as much
and when you do, conversations are short and vague. You
hear the "I've been busy" excuse and you
wonder "What did I do wrong".
Ladies (and gents), when you start hearing these responses
it's time to mentally and emotionally prepare yourself
for a break-up. (Get your mind ...
2 Comments, 242 Views,
23 Votes
,4.88 Score
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Made Easy (or easier) 4/26/2005
We have talked about honesty and it really comes into play
here. The truth hurts sometimes but hurts most of the time
when a relationship turns sour for one of the parties. It's
best to be truthful and just tell it like it is or maybe sugar
coat it to save some feelings, but be firm that it is over.
Feelings will always be hurt, but we are adults and most
of us can handle it and move ...
2 Comments, 167 Views,
24 Votes
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It's not that hard 4/2/2005
Breaking up? wow! it is something that should be honest
and talked about before hurt feelings occur. No one likes
to be told that they are not "the one" and least
of all be told that by a person they thought really liked
them. But breaking up can open you up to new people who may
be more interested in you than the person you are presently
seeing. The main thing in a breakup is to tell ...
0 Comments, 163 Views,
14 Votes
,5.54 Score
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Relationships Can Be Disappointing 3/17/2005
This is why I always try to give the other party a face-saving
way out, regardless of who wants to end it. I like to leave
this world off better for having sojourned here. Everyone
has feelings. Everyone matters.
0 Comments, 194 Views,
21 Votes
,3.50 Score
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Divorce 3/17/2005
Hello, I have been in a relationship for eight years and
enjoy all aspects except what happens behind closed doors.
I have tried everything to keep the fire lit on our sex life
but nothing seems to work? I have thought of the D word but
think it is a shame to ruin a good thing when overall I am happy
with her. It seems that I got a large part of what’s important
in a relationship ...
6 Comments, 266 Views,
15 Votes
,1.60 Score
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Men can be so stupid!!!!!! 3/5/2005
It started out as friends and we maintained that even though
we were intimate. I fell in love and thought God sent him
to me. He decided things were too serious and wanted to be
friends. I believe he loved me. Why are men so stupid when
it comes to commitment? To me it is so simple. I thought we
had it all, but it turned out he was biding his time while
waiting for the perfect woman to step ...
6 Comments, 488 Views,
35 Votes
,3.50 Score
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God and Ice Cream 2/19/2005
Last week I took my to a restaurant. My six-year-old
asked if he could say grace. As we bowed our heads he said,
"God is good, God is great. Thank you for the food,
and I would even thank you more if Mom gets us ice cream for
dessert. And Liberty and justice for all! Amen!"
<br>
Along with the laughter from the other customers nearby,
I heard a woman remark, "That's what's ...
1 Comments, 150 Views,
19 Votes
,5.63 Score
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Its so hard to let you go 2/7/2005
Wherever life may take you, your always at home right here
in my heart. its not easy to let you go but this is our destiny
we need to move on. that is the worst part of breaking up but
life goes on be happy and enjoy the life.
<br>
by: singlemom122157 02/07/2005
1 Comments, 142 Views,
18 Votes
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IN A HOMELESS EYE 2/3/2005
I USE TO HEAR A LULLABY OH SO SOFT AND SWEET
I USE TO HAVE A PLACE TO REST
NICE SHOES UPON MY FEET
A FAMILY THAT LOVED ME
ALWAYS HAD PLENTY TO EAT
AS I SIT HERE IN THIS OLD COLD BOX
I WONDER AND CAN'T SEEM TO GRASP
HOW THING GOT HOW THEY HAVE GOT
TODAY I HAVE ONLY THE CLOTHES THAt i can carry
use to be i had closets
and drank fine sherry
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you see we aren't ...
0 Comments, 89 Views,
9 Votes
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If I was happy would I be here? 2/2/2005
I remember chatting with this guy once, nothing new about
this but I had asked him if he was happily married he said
to me "if I was happy would I be here".
I wonder if that is true if someone is in a relationship and
they spend time on the net does this mean they are or are not
happy??
2 Comments, 403 Views,
30 Votes
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Sibling Rivalry 1/23/2005
A Sunday school teacher was discussing the Ten Commandments
with her five and six year olds. After explaining the commandment
to "honor" thy Father and thy Mother, she asked,
"Is there a commandment that teaches us how to treat
our brothers and sisters?"
<br>
Without missing a beat one little boy (the oldest of a family)
answered, "Thou shall not kill."
0 Comments, 106 Views,
18 Votes
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Never Choke in a Texas Restaurant 1/17/2005
Two good ol' boys walk into a bar. While having a shot
of whiskey, they talk about their moonshine operation.
Suddenly, a woman at a nearby table, who is eating a sandwich,
begins to cough. After a minute or so, it becomes apparent
that she is in real distress.
<br>
One of the cowboys looks at her and says "Kin ya swallar?"
The woman shakes her head no. "Kin ya breathe?"
The ...
0 Comments, 175 Views,
31 Votes
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promises..promises. 12/25/2004
Had met a lady on the telephone dating system. Never did
mention she smoked as had that in my profile.She stated
she was quitting and I beleived her. We even bought a house
together for us and HER .After two years of broken
promises on the smoking debate, her two started
to smoke also..like mom. I ended the relationship and walked
away from the house we had bought. She lost the house and ...
4 Comments, 251 Views,
23 Votes
,1.61 Score
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In their own way 12/17/2004
I made a comment recently that everyone is Beautiful in
their own way. What are some of the Beautiful Qualities
that you find in people? Without just looking at appearances
only?
12 Comments, 300 Views,
31 Votes
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moving in 12/5/2004
You just met the woman of your dream, you do things together,
you share the chore then....
your older moves in, every seems to be ok for a while,
then the atmosphere start to change, the woman of your dream
has to be convince to participate in the events you both
use to enjoyed. Then one day you find your in a compromising
situation.
Do you choose family over this lady?
Do you ...
3 Comments, 120 Views,
17 Votes
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Culture, foul language 12/1/2004
Let's say you met this wonderful and beautiful lady,
but she is from a different country and culture, she swept
you off your feet.
Problem is, that she has a foul mouth. She can only speak
street language. What would you do. How are you going to
introduce her to your friends and parents.
2 Comments, 95 Views,
9 Votes
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appearance (physique) vs personality 11/28/2004
Is appearance (Physique) more important when one search
for a sole mate, if so why.
Is personality more important when one search for a soul
mate.
What do you ladies think about this question. How do you
rate a men on a scale of 1 - 10, what tangents do you use.
1 Comments, 78 Views,
8 Votes
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Prisoners in seniorfriendfinder 11/8/2004
I have had 2 different men in here that are in Prison write
me!!!! I am NOT interested in that type at all.... I wonder
how many more are in here but undetected? Has anyone else
had this experience?
4 Comments, 207 Views,
25 Votes
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Response to: Why senior men seek younger women? 10/31/2004
Frankly speaking: The women within my age bracket are all
used up and can’t or won’t participate in many of the activities
of my lifestyle.
I have to strongly disagree with “57 and fine” on this one.
I have no problem standing toe to toe intellectually with
women my age. Nor do I find that the younger women are intellectually
inadequate. Quite the contrary my ...
13 Comments, 345 Views,
71 Votes
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Cowboy Poetry at Tellabration 10/25/2004
Howdy;
<br>
My handle is Ricky Spin. I will be perfoming as part of the
nationwide Tellabration on 11.20.04.
My perfoming name is Larry's Story Telling Emporium
Tall Tales and Fine Fables. This show will be at Soka University
in Aliso Viejo, California in the Ikeda Library.
8-12 are free a $5.00 is requested for the rest.
<br>
Tellabration is a nation wide ...
0 Comments, 26 Views,
9 Votes
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Response to;- Dating and Spending money. 10/21/2004
May I add a little understanding from a man's point
of view. When were being raised and taught how to date, many
of us were taught that women like to be treated special.
I dinner at a fine resturaunt, a movie, flowers, these things
we were taught to present a lady with to show her as a man we
were, or could be, a good provider for a family. Having the
ability to give these gifts can be seen ...
1 Comments, 56 Views,
21 Votes
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You are right. Pooof they are gone. 10/11/2004
Happened to me too. Wrote and phoned for three month. Met
and dated for a couple of weeks. And Pooof, he too is gone.
He claims he has a reason. He is under going cancer treatments.
It's true, I went with him to one treatment.
But he didn't act sick. Took me all over the place.
Had a Great time- While it lasted-
Was it his "Last Hurray?'
Did his object?
Am I ...
0 Comments, 57 Views,
23 Votes
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Is it really nessecairy. 10/6/2004
Years ago I had a lover that I was totally "Mad" about. Then we broke up. I felt that I couldn't trust him, and I was right. He married some one else who was more tolerant of his foibles. They are still married, but lead separate lives. I still see my old friend, not as a lover,I could never have those romantic feelings with him again, but I see him strictly as a friend. His wife knows and ...
0 Comments, 51 Views,
13 Votes
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Re: Maybe we aren't meant to be lovers... 9/13/2004
This is a good article.
I met a wonderful lady from this site,
and she has made it very clear that she
can't become my lover, but she is so
perfect that I would still like to keep
her as my best friend. Think about it,
how big is the chance for a person to come
into being? How big is the chance for two
people to meet? Do we really have to be
annoyed by some trifling ...
0 Comments, 104 Views,
36 Votes
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Maybe we aren't meant to be lovers, but friends count a whole lot in life 8/19/2004
Reading some of the articles posted has made me think of
my reactions to relationships. I have met a few men on various
sites that I would not trade for all that proverbial tea
in China. We weren't meant to be lovers...but we were
destined to be friends. In our parting as potential lovers...there
were awkward moments...How do you say to someone...I love
YOU...but I don't LOVE you?
And ...
0 Comments, 28 Views,
96 Votes
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