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puertovallarta 70 F
2  Articles
why??   4/30/2006

Help me with this one..we have been dating for 15 months we took vacations together, spent lots of time together, spent Christmas together.. One day he came to see me before I got up..(called fromd rive on cell phone) came back to bring me lunch and took me out to eat that evening. He has not used the wordlove and in fact seemed scared of it and so I said "you act like a man falling in ...


4 Comments, 115 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
donnijoe 74 M
6  Articles
what you might be missing   4/24/2006

For those that feel that race is very important in a relationship, do you ever wonder why you have not fond the right one for you? You ever wonder why you've had so maney relationship?Have you ever looked at a person of a diffrent color than you, and said to yourself wow that is a very handsome or perty preson. Have you ever felt that you are missing out on somthing??? Think about it for a ...


1 Comments, 101 Views, 15 Votes ,4.97 Score
wittytoo 71 M
1  Article
Easter lament - need someone who will be more   4/14/2006

Almost as dreaded as "I think we ought to go out with other people". She was telling me that she wasn't happy with what I had to offer.
But she was still hanging on to me, not daring to start afresh with someone new. She knew it could be months, if at all, before it achieved intimacy like we had right then.
You ask what exactly is "...."? Why did she say to me, "I need ...


2 Comments, 130 Views, 9 Votes ,5.35 Score
donnijoe 74 M
6  Articles
don't you wish?   4/8/2006

don't you wish you could love are make love to whom you wish? Don't you wish that you could be with some one that you are not suppose to be with., yet you talk to them all of the time, smile with them, get mad at them. Want to make love to them. You ever wonder how it would be? if you did it, could you let it go? if it was the best you ever had, could you let it go??Yet where you come from ...


1 Comments, 91 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
MerrilyMcCarthy 75 F
3  Articles
Popcorn Nibblin Man   4/5/2006

Popcorn Nibbling Man

His left hand nibbled at the popcorn
Feeling and picking the perfect popped kernel
His hand was yellowed; the popcorn was buttery;
Gropping in the semi dark, gathering, seeking, searching...
That left hand was like a small animal picking it's meal
For the big balding blond head of the fat man, staring...
At ...


2 Comments, 35 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
daffodil12 75 F
28  Articles
A BROKEN OATH   4/2/2006

A BROKEN OATH

There he stood , still in the cold - Black the night of a rainy time. Deep in the innocence of her soul, She thought he was her lifeline!
She hoped that honesty lay beneath - This holy bond an oath bequeaths! For in truth alone could this survive - A sacred oath that breaks and revives!
He swore that she was - his sole goal - Thus ...


13 Comments, 237 Views, 17 Votes ,6.66 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
The Brown Bottle Flu Adventures   3/28/2006

Mr. Tennessee man was pulled over by the Mississippi City Kitty for speeding. The Blonde City Kitty stepped out of her patrol car, adjusted her sunglasses, and swaggered up to the Mr. Tennessee's window. "What chew driving so fast for boy? You going to a fahhr? Let me see your license, boy." Mr. Tennessee handed over his license. Then the City Kitty noticed that the back seat of the car ...


2 Comments, 127 Views, 17 Votes ,0.72 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Brew with Tomato Juice at the Honeydoo Tavern   3/28/2006

The Tennessee man entered the Missouri Honeydoo tavern, sat down at the bar, and ordered a double budweiser brew with Tomato Juice on the rocks. After he finished the drink, he peeked inside his shirt pocket, then he ordered the bartender to prepare another double brew. After he finishes that, he again peeked inside his shirt pocket and ordered the bartender to bring him another double ...


1 Comments, 45 Views, 12 Votes
MsCutie 70 F
8  Articles
Just Be Careful, Women!!!   3/27/2006

I have a lifelong friend that is a MSW and alcohol councilor in a prison in the South. She went ballistic when I told her that I communicated and have met a few men online. The men that she councils are in there for life and some on death row. She is a rough, tough, cookie herself and is a recovering alcoholic. She knows the game. Some of the men she councils have killed the women that ...


6 Comments, 255 Views, 40 Votes ,7.31 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Overheard at the Honey Doo Tavern   3/26/2006

The Number One Man from Tennessee quotes "I'll take Shakespeare for 1000, Alex." "Duct tape won't fix that." "Come to think of it, I'll have a Heineken." Give me the small bag of pork rinds." "Deer heads detract from the decor."
The Number One DingALing from Texas quotes "Lisa Marie was lucky to catch Michael." "You can't feed that to the dog." "I just couldn't find a ...


4 Comments, 101 Views, 18 Votes
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Uplifting others   3/24/2006

Pretend that every single person you meet has a sign around his or her neck that says, ''Make me feel important.'' Not only will you succeed in sales, you will succeed in life. Mary Kay Ash
Sandwich every bit of criticism between two thick layers of praise. Mary Kay Ash


1 Comments, 40 Views, 16 Votes
MDmanhere7 69 M
1  Article
Sometimes Making Up beats breaking Up!   3/22/2006

Besides, I liked having someone laying close to me during those cold winter nights! It wasn't just the body heat or the sex, but the closeness, being able to know that they are right there and to sence it as well.The pleasant smell beings givin off sets your mind at ease, knowing that shes' mine and shes right here with me, a real sence or inner security for the both of us. I use to be ...


1 Comments, 76 Views, 12 Votes ,4.57 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
BullyPolice   3/22/2006

Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life, but define yourself.” Harvey S. Firestone quotes
High Acheiver!!!!...


4 Comments, 101 Views, 15 Votes ,0.83 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Useful Phases   3/20/2006

1) Thank you. We're all refreshed and challenged by your unique point of view.
2) The fact that no one understands you doesn't mean you're an artist.
3) I don't know what your problem is, but I'll bet it's hard to pronounce.
4) Any connection between your reality and mine is purely coincidental.
5) I have plenty of talent and vision. I just don't give a ...


2 Comments, 93 Views, 21 Votes
MsCutie 70 F
8  Articles
How Much Time Is A Waste Of Time?   3/17/2006

I know that computers have united kzillions of couples. I have enjoyed talking with new folks online and conversing, exchanging emails, daily news, etc. But....when it comes to dating I want to do a little surface talk, test the safety factor, are they worth meeting, and cut to the chase. Meet them in a very safe place and see what is there. I am 100% female. I am not all body/looks- ...


6 Comments, 181 Views, 29 Votes ,7.15 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
Rejection is a part of life   3/16/2006

We sometime wonder if what we are writing about, is going to be an impact on someone's life. Did I say the wrong thing, should I have said nothing. Or would it of been better if I put it another way. I wonder if... oops! what did I do wrong. Noone likes rejection but isn't it a part of life. We look for a job, are we going to get called, and if not, why didn't I, oh, gosh, I must of did or ...


2 Comments, 70 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
A woman feels so.....   3/14/2006

"Lovemaking" is the start of having a wonderful sexual encounter. That goes back to the caveman days. When their work was done, they would meet up with a lady..start a fire, sat down and talked, first, and before they knew it, they were fondling each other. In those days one wonders if they knew what they were really doing, but they did know they were enjoying it. So they kept on ...


4 Comments, 133 Views, 19 Votes ,2.73 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
love is confusing   3/14/2006

Do you find that alot of people confuse love with sex or vice versa? To love someone is to be agreeable to look after one another. Which means that you are expected to be everything. A Dr. nurse, lawyer, teacher, housemaid, good cook, adviser, accountant. and have alot of PATIENCE. You are to be there for that someone 24 hours everyday of every year. To be the one that will give as well as ...


2 Comments, 107 Views, 12 Votes ,3.15 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Redirecting the Hurt into another Passion   3/13/2006

The Artist Beatrice Wood was hurting because of a broken love affair. She was in a antique store looking at Fine China. She decided to make a Teapot to go with the China. The Artist took a pottery class and was able to transform that hurt into passion. She became world famous for her sculptures. She lived to be 105 and remarked that her secret to Longevity was Young Men and ...


0 Comments, 53 Views, 16 Votes ,0.78 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Good House Keeper   3/12/2006

Once the woman's divorce was final, she went to the local Department of Motor Vehicles and asked to have her maiden name reinstated on her driver's license.
"Will there be any change of address?" the clerk inquired.
"No, " the woman replied.
"Oh, good, " the clerk said, clearly delighted. "You got the house."


0 Comments, 57 Views, 17 Votes ,1.15 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Cigars for the Judge   3/12/2006

A woman was in a messy divorce involving large sums of money was talking to her lawyer. "If I lose this case, I'll be ruined." "It's in the judge's hands now, " said the lawyer. "Would it help if I sent the judge a box of cigars?" "Oh no! This judge is a stickler or ethical behavior. A stunt like that would prejudice him against you. He might even hold you in contempt of court. In fact, ...


0 Comments, 47 Views, 16 Votes ,1.51 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
Power/Money   3/12/2006

The breaking up scenario is one of the hardest things in our lives to go through. It can hurt for along time. Many people do suffer for years afterwards, just because of a breaking up and if you have , it can be even worse. This is why I tell my and anyone else to know who you are getting involved with. AND don't have the word "DIVORCE" in your vocabulary. One can never predict the ...


0 Comments, 38 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Naga the Ghost   3/11/2006

Naga is the one you choose not to see. Caught, trapped, unable to change because Naga is without recognition. Unloved, Unnurtured, unseen, Powerless to move on without help. Love Guidance Attention will bring Naga to the World Light and it's all good.


0 Comments, 25 Views, 13 Votes ,0.29 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Seven of Cups - Fear   3/11/2006

Fear is the emotional state that drives one on. Where fear exist, there is opportunity for growth. Fear is what stops, limits, and holds back. A honest look at fears can help to indentify and understand where blocks are. Ride with the fear, through the fear and drive into the fear to get to the other side.


1 Comments, 26 Views, 13 Votes ,0.79 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Six of Cups - Sorrow   3/11/2006

Sorrow is the emotional State of expressing grief or sadness. Healing Tears flow to bring regeneration. Loss of vitality is depression when one closes up to defend emotional sensitivity. Where there is water, there is life.


1 Comments, 41 Views, 13 Votes ,0.79 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
argrueing causes problems   3/2/2006

You are so stupid, why don't you grow up, hey, you aren't pretty anymore because you're so fat" can be reason enough to get totally upset and then you want to say something in return. DON'T! BITE YOUR TONGUE! Go for a walk or do something that you feel good about. Just don't argrue, with the one that has gotten you upset. When WE are upset, we are inclined to say things that maybe we do ...


1 Comments, 74 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
theconsort 67 M
1  Article
Greybeard is pumkin nog and soul?   2/27/2006

Greybeard is the King in Waiting patiently for his throne. I usually vote for Homeboy. My computer would not let me vote every twenty-four hours - but whenever I keep voting for Homeboy, I did so. I even went to the library so that I could keep voting for Homeboy. I admire his style. <br> <br> Nevertheless, the more I inquire about Greybeard, the more I am convinced that he ...


6 Comments, 150 Views, 19 Votes ,5.50 Score
EmilyHelen 69 F
2  Articles
Concentrate on the Good Points   2/25/2006

The old Neil Sedaka song comes to mind when looking at the topic of breaking up with someone. Many of you know it. "They say that breakin up is hard to do, but I know, I know that its true . . ." What bothers me most is the fact that many people I converse with in my friendship and family circles seem to have angry and bitter relationship endings. After dating a couple of nice men in the ...


1 Comments, 88 Views, 14 Votes ,6.02 Score
stoneduck 89 M
103  Articles
Pride's Purge   2/21/2006

of a domestic , maid and cook not the of a significant other job came with a bed for the <br> he slept in the den , on leather slipped out at night , exiting window wandered street , learned its way <br> slept at his desk , failed tests called retread , retard , the dupe slept thru rote , group hugs , quips <br> and then the dance , date ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
MsCutie 70 F
8  Articles
Just Don't Lie To Me..   2/21/2006

I hate liars. I have an ability to detect a lie from afar. I have no time to decipher the lies. We have ALL been lied to from one time to another. It is not polite and some liars have difficulty remembering what is the truth and what is a lie. It is all games. It is the inability of a person not strong enough to communicate their needs and stand up for who and what they are. Lies can ...


4 Comments, 158 Views, 21 Votes ,6.47 Score