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I'm an erotica author and I love erotic talk. Feel free to discuss anything here.

Time to tell more about myself
Posted:Feb 7, 2015 12:29 pm
Last Updated:Feb 25, 2015 4:48 pm
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This blog (obviously I mean mine not everyone's) is supposed to be for others to get to know more about me so I guess it's time I did that. Most of you probably already know that I write erotica, based on what happened. However, I used to be a computer programmer and accountant and have university degrees in both, along with a professional designation. I never expected to write sex stories but life sometimes takes funny turns.

My first love lasted 7 years and frankly breaking off with him broke my heart. I believed that I was a one man woman and he was that man. I was wrong. My present boyfriend and I have been together 9 years this March. We have a connection that I never had with my first boyfriend. He is what some refer to as my soul mate. Given it's too late to have , which I really wanted, we probably won't get married. We are both set in our ways. I'll never say never though. We do love each other very much.

I came on this site many years ago before I met my boyfriend. I actually forgot all about it, but last week someone wrote me. I'm sure that's happened before but I didn't notice them in my e-mails. I think they went to my junk folder. Anyhow I came on here and then decided to post one of my stories. I sincerely didn't realize it was an issue. I apologize to those that it bothered. As many here know, I've been blogging since that time and it's had its ups and downs, much like my job. That said, I've met some wonderful people here but I do have one major issue. BLOGGING IS ADDICTIVE!!! lol Do you agree?
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Can someone clear this mystery up for me?
Posted:Feb 5, 2015 1:40 pm
Last Updated:Apr 12, 2015 12:43 pm
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I need someone to explain to me about witchy44's hostile attitude towards me. In her blog about everyone being nice at heart (ironic given how she's treating me), I happened to agree with something Maisie said. Witchy44 went ballistic and I wrote:

Sorry to hear about your husband and . The part that I loved about Maisie's answer was about freedom of speech, that's all. That's why I referred to the latter. I wasn't referring to the part about you saying you are leaving. I am sorry if you took me agreeing with Maisie as a personal attack. I will always agree with Freedom of Speech as long as hatred isn't being promoted.

After that, she wrote something nasty and everything I wrote since, she deleted. That leaves me no choice but to write it on a blog of mine. PLEASE explain to me why she is acting this way.

I find it interesting that the first blog of hers I read and responded to was about her granddaughter giving birth and I wished them well and she never responded to that. Also, it all started with me reading a blog of hers that said she is leaving. If she left, how come she started a post about banning me? Is her threatening to leave some sort of game? That's very strange to me.

Her last words to me:

shuel...I don't know who you are, don't really care.You seem to have a bee in your bonnet about me, you have every right.

But I'm not going to humour you...you really need to do your homework, Your personal opinions are yours, I have my own...Thank you very much, Have a good day..leave me alone...I'm not getting into a pissing contest with you.
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An observation about these blogs
Posted:Feb 4, 2015 11:35 am
Last Updated:Apr 12, 2015 12:43 pm
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I am pretty new here, as far as blogging. I have written things where I've gotten support, which I am thankful for. On the other hand, if I agree with statements made by certain members, I get attacked. How about giving a list of who I can and can't agree with here, to keep my enemies to a minimum? I wish I was kidding.
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Does being judgmental help us feel better about ourselves?
Posted:Feb 3, 2015 2:08 pm
Last Updated:Feb 15, 2015 10:15 pm
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Someone answered a response I made on a blog, that they have the right to judge others. Of course, everyone is free to judge someone else. I was wondering if when we look at someone or get to know them and think "he's not very bright" or "she's very overweight" or whatever, it makes us feel better about ourselves. Is that why some people judge others so critically? I'd like to hear what others think.

I am putting a pic of my deceased Skippy here. He died in 1988. This blog is not about him but on another blog that it was more appropriate for, it turned out I can't put his picture since it wasn't my blog.
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Seniors DO like S E X
Posted:Jan 29, 2015 12:56 pm
Last Updated:Mar 19, 2015 8:05 pm
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It's sad that others can dictate what should be up at a senior site. I had one of my s e x stories posted in my blog, which I mistakenly thought would be fine since we're all adults. Complaints about erotica being posted, got it removed. Perhaps I am alone in thinking that seniors DO like s e x. I know I love s e x. Do you?

I just noticed that they banned this post. I separated the letters s e x in case that makes a difference. It's sad that SFF would do this.
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WOULD YOU TELL YOUR FRIEND?
Posted:Apr 26, 2016 6:35 pm
Last Updated:Aug 6, 2016 3:05 pm
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I put this up as a post but it makes sense as a poll too. Basically, you find out your friend is being cheated on. Would you tell them? Comments are welcome, as always.
I would tell my friend
I wouldn't tell my friend
Other
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PLEASE HELP ME CONDUCT AN EXPERIMENT!
Posted:Mar 19, 2016 12:30 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 9:19 pm
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I read Maggie's blog about a sweet old lady. She happened to be a serial killer. Maisie said her eyes looked creepy. I thought she looked like anyone's grandma. It got me curious. Can we really tell the good guys/gals from the bad ones IF we don't know what they did. I want to see how this goes. I won't give the answers right away because I want to see how many people get them right.

IF you recognize any of them, PLEASE don't let others know or it will ruin the experiment. There are 10 pics you should see. If SFF plays the usual games and you see less, come back and check to make sure you see all 10. Let's hear how many you think are the killers.










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Should you always side with a friend?
Posted:Feb 20, 2015 1:25 pm
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2016 6:06 pm
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Your friend writes something on their blog that you totally disagree with. You want to show you support him/her but you don't in this case. What do you do?

Please write comments elaborating on your position. Thanks.
He/she is my friend so of course I will publicly agree
I have to voice my true opinion even if my friend is hurt
Other - I wouldn't comment on her blog post
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Older and Wiser - do they automatically go together?
Posted:Feb 4, 2015 1:42 pm
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2016 6:06 pm
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People use the expression that they're older and wiser but are they really wiser?
Yes - with age comes wisdom
No - some people just get older but they definitely aren't wiser
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