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To Date or Not to Date! That is the Question! I'm hot, I'm cold. I don't know if I want to tie up my life with a man or just enjoy the many friends and activities I engage with regularly. Are those people and things "enough" or would "we" benefit from coupling? I suppose the answer to my question would be easier to come by had I ever had a successful relationship. Granted, I was married 3 times--one time for 30 years, but that relationship never brought me the satisfaction I seek. After being single for 6 years, now I'm happier than ever, and single! My head tells me that I've already put myself "out there" and I should be happy where I am in life right now--because it's a good place. On the other hand, my heart tells me that having the love of a wonderful man would be a dream come true. Because I've already signed up for this site I suppose I'm going to take another risk and "put myself out there" so he CAN find me. I'm going to test the waters for 3 months and see what happens. What are your thoughts? Are you hot and cold too? Should we let love find us or just be happy enough with what we already have in our life? |
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