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shuel2002 65F
5101 posts
2/18/2021 12:39 am
WHAT WOULD YOU CHANGE ABOUT YOURSELF?

Nobody's perfect and I would think that we all have things we would change about ourselves if we could. I am talking more about personality traits that are unlikely to change versus physical. I for one wish I was less analytical. Men don't love that but I do tend to delve into things by nature. IF you have something that you have worked on and changed, I hope you share that. It can be inspiring.



Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
2/18/2021 12:39 am



Elaine Shuel


starwomyn 70F
8872 posts
2/18/2021 1:06 am

I am constantly changing to a finer version of myself,

Abracadabra


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
2/18/2021 1:14 am

    Quoting starwomyn:
    I am constantly changing to a finer version of myself,
That's great. Do you find it difficult to change lifetime patterns?

Elaine Shuel


Maudie1 74F
8151 posts
2/18/2021 4:23 am

To be a better listener, and not let my mind wonder off even if the person talking is being long winded and boring. I am striving to be better person in general.


MrsJoe 76F
17385 posts
2/18/2021 6:00 am

Ahhhh, a very analytical blog. I've done some changes over the years, and continue to strive to do better. I no longer feel I have to voice an opinion on every subject that comes up or enter into every argument that comes my way. I've learned to walk away from strife and not allow myself to be hurt or angry about what others might say about me.
I'm also trying to be more patient with myself about things I can no longer do as well as I used to be able to do, or perhaps not able to do at all.
Sometimes, I fail, but I keep working on it.


Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.


MrsJoe 76F
17385 posts
2/18/2021 6:02 am

BTW, I really like those memes. Very thought provoking.

Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
2/18/2021 11:41 am

    Quoting Maudie1:
    To be a better listener, and not let my mind wonder off even if the person talking is being long winded and boring. I am striving to be better person in general.
Sounds good, Maura. It is hard to listen sometimes but we are all guilty of talking too much about topics that mean a lot to us.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
2/18/2021 11:44 am

    Quoting MrsJoe:
    Ahhhh, a very analytical blog. I've done some changes over the years, and continue to strive to do better. I no longer feel I have to voice an opinion on every subject that comes up or enter into every argument that comes my way. I've learned to walk away from strife and not allow myself to be hurt or angry about what others might say about me.
    I'm also trying to be more patient with myself about things I can no longer do as well as I used to be able to do, or perhaps not able to do at all.
    Sometimes, I fail, but I keep working on it.
Sounds like you've come a long way, Pat. I think most of us as we get older, care less than what we used to regarding what people say or think about us.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
2/18/2021 11:57 am

    Quoting  :

What's wrong with sassy, ET?

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
2/18/2021 11:59 am

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It's been a difficult time but things are looking up.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
2/18/2021 12:00 pm

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It is hard to tear down walls and trust completely. I wish you success with changing that.

Elaine Shuel