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shuel2002 65F
5104 posts
3/18/2015 11:17 am
IS THE GLASS HALF EMPTY OR HALF FULL? YOU DECIDE.


There has been much debate on this site. Some say about how bad things are, with the fighting and such. Would I prefer nice and pleasant? Absolutely. However, I prefer to look at it the positive way. There are many great blogs and many great people at SFF. I never felt so much a part of any site. I made friends that I really care about. Some of you I don't know and I've tried to get you to write about yourself. Those that I do know, I really like, with few exceptions.

So, is SFF a good site for you or are you too negative to see that it's worth being here? YOU decide. If you decide to remain, why complain about being here? Just enjoy yourself.

Elaine Shuel


Maudie1 74F
8151 posts
3/18/2015 11:57 am

Interesting blog Elaine. There was always arguments and battles going on here as far back as I can remember back as far as 2005. Some were every bit as nasty as what you're seeing today. The only difference back then was a much bigger community of really great bloggers and it was easier to side step around the arguments and ignore the hassle. Keep up the good work I for one really enjoy your blogs


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
3/18/2015 11:59 am

Thanks Diane. I really feel that way.

Elaine Shuel


GLUMO 90F
9749 posts
3/18/2015 12:30 pm

I enjoy being here, Shuel. I felt welcomed and have several online friends. There are many good and friendly people I appreciate so much.


Trust in dreams, for in them is hidden the gate to eternity.(Khalil Gibran)


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
3/18/2015 1:12 pm

    Quoting Maudie1:
    Interesting blog Elaine. There was always arguments and battles going on here as far back as I can remember back as far as 2005. Some were every bit as nasty as what you're seeing today. The only difference back then was a much bigger community of really great bloggers and it was easier to side step around the arguments and ignore the hassle. Keep up the good work I for one really enjoy your blogs
Thanks Maura. I just read another blog that was complaining again. I wish the negativity would stop.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
3/18/2015 1:14 pm

    Quoting  :

I think most of the people here want a good time. It is always sad when one bad apple spoils the bunch. I think the lesson is, we can't let them. Let's stay positive!!! Thanks for your comment, Bill.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
3/18/2015 1:14 pm

    Quoting GLUMO:
    I enjoy being here, Shuel. I felt welcomed and have several online friends. There are many good and friendly people I appreciate so much.
I feel the same way Lucy and you are one of them. Thanks for your response.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
3/18/2015 1:19 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks Pat, I read your comment on that blog you are referring to. I am banned there so I couldn't make any comments. I can just watch the blogs posted.

Pat, I wanted to write you privately to tell you what I'm about to say, but I don't have your e-mail. When I joined there was a glitch and you thought I banned you. I didn't and wouldn't. You have become one of my favorites on this site. Your comments are always welcome and I love reading what you have to say. I just wanted you to know that.I consider you a friend.

Elaine Shuel


Abelle2 83F
31246 posts
3/18/2015 1:21 pm

The part of the glass Alfie and I use is half full, the rest is half empty!


Robyn363 83F
3475 posts
3/18/2015 1:25 pm

Sometimes both


Shartaun03 81F
6214 posts
3/18/2015 1:35 pm

I think my glass is half full. I m still discovering new things about people and like Pat said on her comment I don't read all the blogs and for sure the more controversial ones. I must admit I have a few favorites and I keep track of those by using the watched list. It is the way it is and I am sure there are many others who think like I do.


Nileyears 71F
4208 posts
3/18/2015 2:20 pm

So far so good Elaine, most of the people I have met I like, there's only a few I would rather not have anything to do with, and that doesn't mean I hate them, or anything like that, just not interested in what they have to say. So yes, it's half full and I'll enjoy what I can here on SFF.


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
3/18/2015 2:24 pm

    Quoting Abelle2:
    The part of the glass Alfie and I use is half full, the rest is half empty!
A perfect answer, Ann. Thanks.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
3/18/2015 2:24 pm

Thanks for your candid answer, Robyn.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
3/18/2015 2:25 pm

    Quoting Shartaun03:
    I think my glass is half full. I m still discovering new things about people and like Pat said on her comment I don't read all the blogs and for sure the more controversial ones. I must admit I have a few favorites and I keep track of those by using the watched list. It is the way it is and I am sure there are many others who think like I do.
I do the same, Shartaun03. Thank you.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
3/18/2015 2:26 pm

    Quoting LeafTreat:
    I never complain...except on one issue. It's one thing if a writer of a blog makes their editorial decisions. I am generally very open in this regard. However, I prefer that people who comment on my blog refrain from the use of vulgar language. I think that after this occurs, if I find a compelling reason to ask someone not to use vulgar language on my blog, its reasonable to expect that the preference be respected. But, for some strange reason, these people in some sort of dysfunctional logic decide to double down on its use, regardless of how readers of my blog might feel. Disagreeing on issues is one thing...but the persistent stalking for the sole purpose of spewing vulgar language is beyond bizarre.
I agree Leaf. I don't want vulgar language used on my blog either.

Elaine Shuel


Rocketship 80F
18602 posts
3/18/2015 5:18 pm

This site opened up for me a whole new world of wonderful people.

I've especially enjoyed meeting many of them at gatherings/bashes.


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
3/18/2015 6:50 pm

    Quoting Nileyears:
    So far so good Elaine, most of the people I have met I like, there's only a few I would rather not have anything to do with, and that doesn't mean I hate them, or anything like that, just not interested in what they have to say. So yes, it's half full and I'll enjoy what I can here on SFF.
Exactly the attitude I'd expect, from a level headed person I respect. Thanks Nileyears.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
3/18/2015 6:51 pm

    Quoting Rocketship:
    This site opened up for me a whole new world of wonderful people.

    I've especially enjoyed meeting many of them at gatherings/bashes.

Yes I'm sure it has, Rocket, as it has for me. You are definitely one of the high notes of the site.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
3/18/2015 6:55 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks akamatt, I agree there are some very lovely people here, like yourself.

Elaine Shuel


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
3/18/2015 7:13 pm

    Quoting  :

Thank you Rosie, my new friend and fellow Torontonian. I agree with you about some of them but thankfully, the majority are very nice.

Elaine Shuel