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tazloveyou 73M
12 posts
12/21/2008 12:50 pm
Respect for others


When I was 18 and in high school as usual I thought me and my friends were the best there was. I belonged to a gang in the Chicago area and got suspended a lot for gang related things we did. We were racists, made fun of people that were not like us like gay people, Jews, etc.One day after school the gym teacher caught me smoking a cigarette near the entrance of a panic locked door.He told me to come with him to his office. I did not want to but he said if I didnt that I would be suspended. He was a tall black man with a body of a linebackerso I knew better than to try to fight or argue with him. We sat in his office and he wanted me to tell him why I thought I was so tough. I tried to give him the usual B S but he saw right through that. He tried to tell me how wrong I was to make fun of others and how I should show respect to all. I laughed and said "Right". This made him mad and he got up and said "Your so tough come with me I want to show you something" We went into the locker room and it was just him and I and he pushed me against one of the lockers. He said 'your so bad,come back at me" He had this mean look in his eyes. I didnt know what to do. Then he told me to sit on the bench and if I didnt he was going to knock the hell out of me. I sat on the bench. He walked over to me and reached into his gym shorts and pulled out his penis and said "open your mouth" I said no. He grabed my head and pulled my head into his crotch. I couldnt breathe so I did what he said. After a few minutes my fear was replaced with a strange feeling. I got this warm feeling in the pit of my stomach and I thought "This is not bad. So I kept it up till he reached a climax and that was not bad either. I enjoyed it. After he finished he said that if he ever heard me making fun of blacks or any one else that he would make sure he would get me and make me do this again. I felt like telling him that I didnt mind this that he wouldnt need an excuse to get me to do it again. But I didnt I went home that night and thought about what he said and did and I changed my whole view on other people. I learned to respect all people no matter what race or gender they were. Not long after that I graduated and I made it a point to go in his office and thank him for opening up my eyes. We shook hands and I left. I never went back to my old school and never saw him again. but what I learned that day made me a better person.

SpunkyLady051 72F

12/21/2008 3:17 pm

He needed to go to prison


thumbs_up65 80F

12/21/2008 3:17 pm

Well, personally I think you could have picked your words a little wiser and got the same message across. But then, I just read your profile, and now I understand.....shame on you!!!!! I believe you are on the wrong site....but it is just my opinion.


caydriver 79F

12/21/2008 3:59 pm

Trying to relate this as a bonofide lesson in tolerance is the most bizarre thing I have read. No reason to explain more because you could never comprehend.


caydriver 79F

12/21/2008 4:53 pm

No, this blog will be better received on the Illinois police site. He has pointed the finger at a teacher who is a predator and a child molester. Won't be hard to trace. His happy little family might be disrupted by a knock on the door. Nothing is more disgusting than an "educator" that is molesting students. Merry Christmas.


thumbs_up65 80F

12/21/2008 7:12 pm

    Quoting caydriver:
    No, this blog will be better received on the Illinois police site. He has pointed the finger at a teacher who is a predator and a child molester. Won't be hard to trace. His happy little family might be disrupted by a knock on the door. Nothing is more disgusting than an "educator" that is molesting students. Merry Christmas.
This guy is a pervert. Did you read his profile. I think he made the whole story up just to get someone's attention. Don't fall into his stupid, silly little mind games....


caydriver 79F

12/21/2008 7:21 pm

    Quoting thumbs_up65:
    This guy is a pervert. Did you read his profile. I think he made the whole story up just to get someone's attention. Don't fall into his stupid, silly little mind games....
That's OK, I can be "silly". But he needs to be checked out. If someone doesn't have the courage to "speak out" his crap will continue. Done deal. He will get attention.


TheLuckyLady 81F

12/21/2008 7:49 pm

I, just to know what other's mentioned, viewed your profile. You "welcome" everyone to your world. To each his own. I try not to judge and allow others to live as they please without condemnation. But, I do feel sorry for your wife if she isn't aware and not in agreement with your lifestyle.

What you endured was nothing but sexual abuse......perhaps the very reason you are as you are today. May God bless you.....and I know he loves us all.