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andre1955 68M
95 posts
12/27/2008 6:50 am
about my girlfriend who is dying from cancer


My girlfriend is getting a lot worst she now is on oxygen and is vomiting alot and is bleeding from her rear end not good a all. I dont give her long to live and it makes me very sad and hopeless not being able to help that much but i try my hardest to help her. we are still thinking of getting married but i dont know if she will live that long.At least we had Christmas and hopefully a New year together. She keeps thinking ahead about our lives together, i think thats what keeps her going.May God be with her and watch over her.

Miles523 71F

12/27/2008 7:12 am

My prayer today is for you, for your girlfriend. Andre, thanks for letting us know. May God give you strenght to understand what you and she are going through. A marriage ceremony may be had at home, or at the hospital, if such is her desire and yours to be married.
Maria


Rocketship 80F
18580 posts
12/27/2008 7:24 am

(((((HUGSSSSS)))) for you both Andre!!!!

I agree with SingToMySoul.....Hold your wonderful lady for as long as you can!!


frenchsalsa2 77F
7809 posts
12/27/2008 8:16 am

André, so sorry, désolé... I'm sure you want to help her but as suggested here, hold her ... very close, keep reminding her you love her. God will be with you and her to help things along. Bless you!!


lissibarlow 65F

12/27/2008 8:21 am

Andre, May you find the strength to say all the things you need to say to each other, and yes marry if this is your wish , and ,,,,,,,, yes hold her , (My thoughts & prayers are with you both )


Abelle2 83F
31231 posts
12/27/2008 8:21 am

Hug her, hold her, marry her now!


bijou624

12/27/2008 8:28 am

Dear Andre: What a scary and sad situation for your girlfriend and for you. I am so sorry. I don't know why people are meant to suffer so much in this life. She is fortunate to have someone who cares about her at her side. Tell her we said hello and are hoping for a miracle. All the best to you both, Bijou xoxo


RedRidingHood10 73F
3728 posts
12/27/2008 10:10 am

Hold her, tell her you love her, stay with or near her and thank her for being in your life. If she enjoys music, play her favorite songs and sing to her.


The positive is there. Sometimes it's just hard to find.


Robyn5 83F

12/27/2008 11:42 am

Im sorry Andre and I feel sad for you both. What Red RidingHood said is a good idea if she likes music, play her favourite music, it goes straight to the soul and will help her to feel at peace. Hugs.