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andre1955 68M
95 posts
10/5/2008 3:49 pm
my girl friend that is dying who wants to marry me


I have told you before about my girl friend who has sugar , a brian tumor and dying from cancer. she has a lot of pain from the brain tumor and her stomach bothers her alot from the cancer thats eating away at her. now we plan on getting married on feburay 14 2009 ,to tellyou the truth i dont think it will happen, because i think the cancer is going to take her away from me. I never know when i might find her passed away and that bothers me a lot. we go to church every sunday and i pray to God to let her live a little longer. I want to thank all of you who have sent messages on my blog.

beepbeep 83F
2620 posts
10/5/2008 5:04 pm

ANdre, perhaps a 'Betrothal' ceremony? It can be very similar to a wedding, without being official..but a commitment to God and friends. There would be no reason not to have a wedding in FEb.

Being very callous here, but if you marry, will you not then be responsible for her medical debts?

Andre prayers and hugs for both of you.


LibertyParis1943 80F

10/5/2008 6:59 pm

Andre, In no way do I mean for this to sound harsh or cruel but before I made the committment I would SEEK THE ADVICE OF AN ATTORNEY. As Beep Beep addressed, you need to know you are not having to take on a financial burden that could possibly ruin you.

If I were in your circumstances, (under the advice of councel) I would marry the person soon and do it LEGALLY. I'm sure she wants to know when she gets to Heaven, you will be there with her someday.

God Bless both of you...the journey for both of you is not an easy one.
Paris

"Soaring high to touch the face of GOD"


bijou624

10/6/2008 2:33 am

Hi Andre: So sorry your friend is so ill. Marriage is just a piece of paper. Your being there and caring about her is what's important.