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andre1955 68M
95 posts
6/4/2008 5:13 pm
Family and cancer


I just found out my older brother who lives in upstate N.Y. has cancer of the throat he has to go out of state to get care for it he is worried and me to because our father died of lung cancer and alot of our family has died of cancer he would like me to come up and live back in upstate N.Y. but now I live in South Carolina can t make my mind up so I guess I will just go up and vist him, I have been checked for cancer and I have no cancer. I don t smoke so I guess that helps he did smoke. I never knew my grandparents on my fathers side they both died of cancer before I was born, so I grew up never knowing them kind of hurt not knowing them, but life goes on. I keep my brother in my prayers intill I see him. God bless.

eskay1944 78F

6/4/2008 5:53 pm

Bless you and your brother...I lost my sister to cancer on Christmas Day...I feel your pain...so many ...friends and family gone...I don't know what is happening...only know I have learnt to grieve, to take the tests, to live as healthy as I can and HOPE.

Know you are not alone..there are friends here, they helped me so much..please call on them when you need them.

Hugs Erna/witchy..


Tanzanite1 78F

6/4/2008 6:18 pm

Andre, saw this and just wanted to say hello and I'm so sorry you are facing this...your brother is one lucky guy to have you as his brother, I'm thinkin..I'll remember you both in my prayers...I see my sister Eskay was here...she is truly an angel...Either of us will be there for you if you need to talk..
Hugs,
Tanz

I could have missed the pain, but I'd of had to miss the Dance...Hugs, Tanz