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marbella3 70F
2483 posts
8/7/2021 5:31 am

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8/7/2021 2:44 pm

First Forgive

Today's Devotional

Read: Genesis 33:1–11

Bible in a Year: Psalms 72–73; Romans 9:1–

Esau ran meet Jacob and embraced him. Genesis 33:4

We called ourselves “sisters in Christ,” but my White friend and I had begun act like enemies. Over a café breakfast one morning, we argued unkindly over our differing racial views. Then we parted, with vowing not see her again. One year later, however, we were hired by the ministry—working in the department, unable not reconnect. Awkwardly at first, we talked over conflicts. Then, over time, God helped us apologize each other and heal and give the ministry our best.

God also healed the bitter division between Esau and his twin brother, Jacob, and blessed both their lives. A onetime schemer, Jacob had robbed Esau of their father’s blessing. But twenty years later, God called Jacob return their homeland. So, Jacob sent ahead bountiful gifts appease Esau. “But Esau ran meet Jacob and embraced him; he threw his arms around his neck and kissed him. And they wept” (Genesis 33:4).

Their reunion stands as a classic example of God’s urging settle anger with a brother or sister before offering our gifts—talents or treasures— Him (Matthew 5:23–24). Instead, “first go and be reconciled them; then come and offer your gift” (v. 24). Jacob obeyed God by reconciling with Esau, and later setting an altar God (Genesis 33:20). What a beautiful order: First, strive for forgiveness and reconciliation. Then, at His altar, He receives us.

Against whom do you hold a grudge or grievance? What steps can you take reconcile?

Dear God, when I hold onto hard feelings against another believer, inspire the way Your altar first forgive.


MrsJoe 76F
17420 posts
8/7/2021 7:03 am

I believe the Lord has given me a wonderful gift in the ability to forgive others. Sometimes, I don't really want to... I want to hold onto it for awhile longer, but I know that is counterproductive in my life.


Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.