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starwomyn 70F
5429 posts
7/27/2021 10:42 pm

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8/5/2021 2:06 am

Crazy Lady Drama, Trolls, and Hypocrisy

I was frequently ridiculed as a youngster because of being Hard of Hearing and speaking "differently." My usual strategy has been to ignore the bullies versus giving the satisfaction of knowing how hurtful they were being. They enjoy seeing the torment that they cause others.

My hope was always that the bullies would mature, progress, and become more functional compassionate people. It happens but sometimes they just become internet trolls. There are such unfortunates - maybe born that way - and not at fault. They are naturally incapable of grasping the concept honesty and compassion. Maybe in another lifetime - they will get it.

As a result of the haters who never progressed to become nicer folks . There has emerged on SFF "The Crazy Lady Drama Club" There are a few men who auxiliary members.

Yeah! Yeah! I know about "Don't Feed the Trolls." I've spend a lifetime of ignoring them and pretending that they don't exist. There is also an amends step that doesn't mean "I'm sorry." It can be airing grievances in a respectful way. When the other party is incapable of being respectful - it is necessary to set boundaries and using the tools necessary to enforce those boundaries.

So............ in the name of boundaries - the word hypocrite seems to be the "to go" slur toward anyone of faith especially Christianity. Is it really appropriate? Granted there was the Inquisition, the burning times in Europe, and the Salem Witch Trails.

Nevertheless, do the happenings in Arab and some African countries justify Islamophobia.?

It has been my observation that local churches and other faith groups are the ones organizing food pantries, providing resources to folks in troubling times, and opening thier doors during natural disasters. I volunteered with a group of churches that provided shelter for homeless people during the winter.

Also what in Hades is a GQP'er magat?! Should I assume that all Democrats are members of Antifa - a violent left wing group? There are two main political parties in the United States. Most people belong to one or the other. Some are Independent or something else. Most are law-abiding citizens who try to be the best that they can. No one is perfect but we can all do better.

CP3 claims that I was diddling Republican men , trying to seduce a troll, and made very little money as a stripper because I am homely as F.

Does she diddle every man that she dates or tries to seduce every one she has a conservation with in the blogs? Granted, I don't have the same level of beauty that I did four decades ago when I was an exotic dancer. I am fine with pushing seventy and looking like a swamp witch. I am sure that I am going to look even more like one in future decades if I make it that far. Life on life's terms.



Abracadabra


MrsJoe 76F
17445 posts
7/27/2021 11:19 pm

Some children can be so cruel......... and on the flip side, there are those who show compassion and acceptance. I wonder if has a lot to do with their home life?

Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.


waywardwind302 78M

7/27/2021 11:25 pm

star, i am getting the treatment now from the same person. i must have some awful effect on them. they have had me banned 4 times now.

They are just miserable in their lives. at least 3 here hate so viciously it is hard to understand how they stand they selves, having a catalog of blogs and using them to trash others is a clear sign of a loose screw


starwomyn 70F
8876 posts
7/27/2021 11:38 pm

    Quoting MrsJoe:
    Some children can be so cruel......... and on the flip side, there are those who show compassion and acceptance. I wonder if has a lot to do with their home life?
I am sure it does have something to do with thier home lives. Sometimes when going through a similar experience years later. they get it.

Abracadabra


starwomyn 70F
8876 posts
7/28/2021 2:37 am

    Quoting waywardwind302:
    star, i am getting the treatment now from the same person. i must have some awful effect on them. they have had me banned 4 times now.

    They are just miserable in their lives. at least 3 here hate so viciously it is hard to understand how they stand they selves, having a catalog of blogs and using them to trash others is a clear sign of a loose screw
The best thing to do is ignore them much as possible but sometimes enough is enough. Trolls will push far as you let them and you decide to push back, you have to be careful that it doesn't backfire. I was the target of a flame war when I first joined SFF. I was new to the internet and didn't handle it well. I've gotten better at it.

Abracadabra


Nileyears 71F
4208 posts
7/28/2021 10:22 am

I'm not going to preach to the choir here, you handle yourself quite well.

I have no idea what a GQP magat is, or is it a GQP maggot? Still no idea.

Lol, diddling? That's a new one on me, but figured it out. Heck, none of us are the beauties we once were, a mirror tells us that, but my Mom always told me beauty is only skin deep, the ugly can be hidden just under the surface and wicked people can't hide that forever.